I'm tired and cranky. Not sure I have enough patience for dinner tonight

[sbj405]

*sigh* Dinner with my "dificult diner" friend. Between that and the offhanded comments about my SO, I don't know if I'll be able to take it. Make me happy before I go.

[bertha katzenengel]

1. Prepare how you'll reply to the offhanded comments.

Give your friend what for, SBJ. It may make the evening a little abrasive, but if you come back at him/her, it might make you feel a little better.

Good luck! :beer:

[sbj405]

2. Did you ever have a friend or acquaintance that. . .

you never wanted to tell them anything negative b/c they'd throw it back at you later. I see the way she talks about other's SO based on what I am sure is her other friend's venting. Instead, it's basically used to demonize the SO.

[bertha katzenengel]

3. Yep. I know the type.

Can you ignore the comments without being hurt or annoyed too much? Can you blow it off when you're finally alone again, and not stress or carry it with you?