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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-27-06 12:24 PM
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I'm Starting to Believe "The Rules" Are There for My Own Good
Last year: allowed myself to get yanked around and get my heart broke.

This month: blew off two guys, in two weeks, who were trying to get *me* to do the pursuing. Damn it feels good.
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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-27-06 10:56 PM
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1. Here's to taking control -
Edited on Wed Sep-27-06 10:57 PM by Madrone
:toast:

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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-28-06 06:32 AM
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2. Aye
Too bad it sucks to not have a freaking DATE for the weekend, though!
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Ohio Joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-28-06 06:46 AM
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3. Just curious, how does that work
How does one get someone else to pursue them? The idea never even occurred to me, maybe I've been going about this the wrong way all along :shrug:
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-28-06 07:09 AM
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4. I May Not Be the Best Person to Ask
Edited on Thu Sep-28-06 07:16 AM by Crisco
Still figuring it out.

But basically? It's about almost-but-not-completely ignoring someone. Personally I think it's an awful thing to do, but I'm tired with guys who initially pursue me, then start falling off the face of the earth when I decide not to hide a returned attraction.

If you're a guy and want to know how to get a woman to pursue you? Easy. Just look for someone who's honest and doesn't like hiding nice things.
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