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bertha katzenengel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:11 PM Original message |
Ever had bad times re: family inheritance? |
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momophile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
1. my grandpa left his house to |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:24 PM Response to Original message |
2. No But I See Families Fighting Over This All The Time |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
3. yup. hubby refuses to speak to his family. |
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Jimbo S (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:17 PM Response to Reply #3 |
62. Any legal recourse? |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:43 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. probably |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
4. Dad left everything to my brother. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
5. No, thank God - my parents made sure my sister and I knew what they wanted, |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
6. Oh, yeah. |
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amitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:57 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Fuck her. Children are not compensated for taking care of their |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:59 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Yes. That's what I told her. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-07-06 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
7. ooh |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:48 AM Response to Reply #7 |
47. Hey - the ceder chest is innocent. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:26 PM Response to Reply #47 |
63. well, ante up then. |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:07 AM Response to Original message |
10. Ha ha. |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:20 AM Response to Reply #10 |
58. How did you get screwed? |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:13 PM Response to Reply #58 |
69. Who says? |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 06:24 AM Response to Reply #69 |
89. You SHOULD be grateful. |
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QMPMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:37 AM Response to Original message |
11. Enough troubles to wish that my Grandma had just taken her |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:51 AM Response to Original message |
12. Bad times as in, I inherited it |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:01 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:09 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. I'm over it. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:15 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Hmmm, That's Good |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:18 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. True. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:21 AM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Funky Hair |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:23 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Dude, I thought you were going to go to bed at a reasonable |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:25 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I Know.... |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:27 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. I don't know. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:30 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Last Time I Remember Her Posting |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:33 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. That might be it. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:39 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. That Would Be Cool |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:23 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. Okay, Now I Could Go Edit My Post |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:24 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Long. Bleached almost white. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:29 AM Response to Reply #21 |
24. Okay, I Hate To Say What That Reminds Me Of |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:32 AM Response to Reply #24 |
26. I'm sure it is. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:36 AM Response to Reply #26 |
28. You're Still Killing Me |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:42 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Once a decade or so I meet somebody who thinks I'm funny. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:46 AM Response to Reply #30 |
31. A Small Hug? |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:52 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I've short arms. n/t |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:54 AM Response to Reply #32 |
33. Mine Are Looooong! |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:55 AM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Scary long. |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:57 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. It Is Quiet |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:03 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. And off I go. |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:00 AM Response to Reply #12 |
36. Space Transportation Booster Engine? |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:04 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. I had to go back and read my post |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:08 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. I don't get your acronym. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:09 AM Response to Reply #39 |
40. Oh, me and my drop of vodka. |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:53 AM Response to Reply #40 |
45. I'd wondered about that acronym when you used it in another thread! |
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Broken_Hero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
13. My father |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:58 AM Response to Original message |
41. what do you think of this? |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:15 AM Response to Original message |
42. saw one from the sidelines... |
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DainBramaged (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:22 AM Response to Original message |
43. My ex's Mom left her house to the douche bag dimwit daughter |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:48 AM Response to Original message |
44. Yes. My FIL and MIL left *everything* to my SIL. |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 07:01 AM Response to Original message |
46. Well, a book detailing the entire family history back to the 1400s was stolen by the lawyer. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 04:58 PM Response to Reply #46 |
78. Holy crap. That is INSANE. |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:56 AM Response to Original message |
48. Worrying over the inheritance can be the worst of it. |
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annonymous (850 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 09:57 AM Response to Original message |
49. My mother and her cousin got into a dispute re: inheritance |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:00 AM Response to Original message |
50. Yep. Never thought it would happen too us, either. Haven't spoken to my sister |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
51. my fathers family splintered and ruined several business interests |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:27 AM Response to Original message |
52. My Family Doesn't Have Enough Assets to Get Worked Up About |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
53. Yes -- I was the executrix of my mother's estate |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 02:44 PM Response to Reply #53 |
67. "Feeding frenzy" is perfect. Describes my sister. |
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bikebloke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
54. Not money, so much... |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
55. I didn't think so until about a year ago... |
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SoyCat (660 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
56. Yes. Enough trouble that I'm not accepting any inheritance from my mother when the time comes (just |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:37 PM Response to Reply #56 |
73. I told my parents it would be 50/50 no matter what the will said |
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SoyCat (660 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 06:33 PM Response to Reply #73 |
80. I'm sorry you have to deal with the same kind of family b.s. You sound very fair and it will serve |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
57. Father died intestate. |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:26 AM Response to Original message |
59. In the four million year history |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
60. Yep. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:33 PM Response to Reply #60 |
64. me either |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:12 PM Response to Reply #64 |
68. there are plenty of people who would give an arm and a leg... |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 03:22 PM Response to Reply #68 |
97. they might oughta |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
61. No. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
66. yep--i am related to vultures |
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Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
70. yes, with DH's family. Three tried to take all, Will said to split it 6 ways |
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ComerPerro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
71. nothing to inherit in my family, really |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:27 PM Response to Original message |
72. Not in my family, but.... |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
74. grandmother was truly evil |
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AzDar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 04:02 PM Response to Reply #74 |
99. OT, but I HAVE to post this...my paternal Grandma (also born in 1899!!) |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
75. My (suspected) borderline mother might give me trouble someday. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
76. Not yet, but I'm sure as hell expecting it. |
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Zookeeper (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
77. When my great-grandmother died.... |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
79. I absolutely will be when my dad dies. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:16 PM Response to Reply #79 |
81. I don't know anything about inheritance laws... |
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freethought (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 12:06 AM Response to Reply #81 |
84. If someone has left and estate with a clear will and properly filed |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 03:49 AM Response to Reply #81 |
87. Actually, they could sue. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 03:59 AM Response to Reply #87 |
88. Wow, there's all this law that I never thought existed. |
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freethought (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 11:17 AM Response to Reply #87 |
95. Good point. I could definitely see how that legal tactic may work |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 06:32 AM Response to Reply #79 |
90. Good for you. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 04:19 PM Response to Reply #79 |
101. ouch |
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freethought (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
82. Yes, with my father's estate |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Dec-08-06 11:57 PM Response to Original message |
83. Vivid Bad Times |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
85. Not yet |
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mohinoaklawnillinois (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 02:17 AM Response to Original message |
86. Yeah, Mr. Wonderful was done out of the family farm in Ireland. |
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shanine (322 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 06:49 AM Response to Original message |
91. Just a little financial exploitation |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 07:54 AM Response to Original message |
92. My grandmother watched over an elderly neighbor, driving her |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
93. When Skip's grandfather died, it was a mess. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 09:11 AM Response to Original message |
94. no, nonewhatsoever |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
96. when my sisters died, my cousins came in and took all the clothes, jewlery |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 04:14 PM Response to Reply #96 |
100. this is when you call the police |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 04:20 PM Response to Reply #100 |
102. cops in the middle of my fathers wake? i think my mom was upset enough... |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 04:24 PM Response to Reply #102 |
103. I understand that. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 04:36 PM Response to Reply #103 |
104. so did my aunt. she is one slick piece of work. |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 04:56 PM Response to Reply #104 |
105. bless your heart |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 05:39 PM Response to Reply #105 |
106. well when you stack the possesions against your parents health or happiness... |
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idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 05:53 PM Response to Reply #106 |
107. I have an unnatural aversion to most objects |
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Giant Robot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Dec-09-06 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
98. This doesn't necessarily apply to the OP |
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