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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:38 PM
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So, I decided, I think I'm done with love
After all that love did to me. I don't want to ever be in love again. So, now I'm working on being out of love. Then, once out. I shant be interested in seeking it again. I have my career, my friends, and am capable of finding sex when I want it. So, I think that's it. I'll use this life for something else.
And when I look at the people I really admire in life... they've always been the same way. So, I think it may be a calling. I used to think that before. But, then fell in love and dismissed it. Then all hell broke loose. So, I learned a valuable lesson.
Those who agree, chime in.
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FedUpWithIt All Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:43 PM
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1. Don't tie yourself into anything...
Edited on Sat Jan-06-07 09:51 PM by FedUpWithIt All
Have your alone time for now if that is what feels right. Later if something else feels right, go with it. We never know what tomorrow will bring ;)


On a more personal note...i want to say i am sorry for what you have been going through. Sometimes, love can kick you bloody. :(

:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:46 PM
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2. That's An Understatement!
Love, whatever the hell that really is

can kick you all the way to hell and back and then make you bloody and do it all over again.

And yet, what do I do? Get right back up and look for it again. Think I found it. Then get kicked black and blue, and bloody and back to hell and back again, etc.

I'm not sure what this love is, but I think it has a booby trap in it for me!

:hug:
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FedUpWithIt All Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:52 PM
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8. You are just a loving guy...
your DOOMED!!! ;)

:loveya: :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:54 PM
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9. Well, Dammit!
I guess I'll just be doomed then!

Can I be doomed with you for a bit?

:hug: :loveya: :yourock:
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:50 PM
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5. there's a great line in the movie "love, actually"
When the little kid says to his step-dad.. "Right, let's go get the shit kicked out of us by love."
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FedUpWithIt All Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:51 PM
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7. Ain't it the truth. :D n/t
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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:49 PM
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3. I'd like to echo the thoughts of the first poster
I'm kind of like you right now, HEyHEY. I'm not really interested in finding a lasting relationship and I really don't see myself feeling any differently in the future. But I'm not going to say that it will never happen. There may come a time in my life when I need steady companionship. So take it easy for now, but you never know what the future might bring- be open to it.
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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:49 PM
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4. Heh. Good luck with that.
I've made similar declarations myself. Love is a sneaky-ass bastard that creeps up on you when you're not looking.
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jan-06-07 09:51 PM
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6. Ain't that the truth!
:hi:
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