DUers who WISH they were still single, check in here!

[NewWaveChick1981]

:hi: I'll kick off the roll call! NewWaveChick1981 present and accounted for!

[Guava Jelly]

1. GoPsUx type one each

living in sin counts right?

[NewWaveChick1981]

2. Right. Attached/committed, not necessarily married.

:hi:

[billyskank]

3. Aww sweetie

:hug:

[NewWaveChick1981]

5. ...

:hug: How are you, billyskank? :loveya: :D

[billyskank]

6. I am great!

:D

:loveya:

[querelle]

4. Hi NWC!

I really don't belong in this thread, because I am currently single, but wish I weren't. I had a hook up last night with an old *uck buddy and as usual it was awesome. I have nothing in common with this guy except totally mind blowing sex. If he was more intellectually my type (he's a conservative) it could be a great relationship. But I'm still looking..........

Anyway, hello to you NWC!

Q

[NewWaveChick1981]

7. Hiya, Q!

:hi: :loveya: Great to see you! And glad your evening was so good. :evilgrin: I have had similar experiences, but if I say too much here, I might get myself in a lot of trouble. :rofl: Even if he's not relationship material, mind-blowing sex will do nicely. ;)

I hope you find the right guy soon. You deserve to be happy! :D :pals:

[driver8]

8. I don't know if I want to be single again...

but being single for a couple of nights would be nice.

I would be on a plane to Vermont so fast...(my high school crush lives there.). She told me at our reunion that if I wasn't married, she would have taken me back to Vermont with her!

*Sigh*...

[NewWaveChick1981]

24. ...

:hi: :hug: I hear ya! :D

[Aristus]

9. ...um...hello?...is this thing on?......

:blush: ...uh, hi.

I love being married, and I adore my wife. But ever since I got married, other women seem to find me attractive. Where were they when I was single? I was a pretty clueless single guy; my wife would often say, when we were dating, "Can't you tell when a lady is hitting on you?". I guess I couldn't. :dunce:

I dunno. Now that I'm married, it just seems more obvious to me when a woman is hitting on me.

[leftofthedial]

10. I had that "problem" too

until I got divorced

then all those women seemed to disappear . . .

[av8rdave]

11. funny how that works...

[driver8]

13. That is the same with me.

I was back at my high school reunion (without my wife) and it was unbelievable. As I mentioned in my previous post, my high school crush was ready to take me back to Vermont with her!

When I was single women would tell me, "You're a 'good catch'...I can't believe you're single.'".

[NewWaveChick1981]

25. Isn't that one of Murphy's Laws?

:hi: :D :loveya: Single or married, I think you're hot... :D

[Aristus]

28. Aw shucks!

Back atcha, NWC! :* :hug::loveya:

[crim son]

12. Here I am!

I don't ever want another man to dictate what I do, ever. I will be single even if it means I starve.

[NewWaveChick1981]

26. Sweetie, I think you and I were separated at birth...

:hug: :hi: :pals: I'm way too independent to deal with what I've had to deal with... And it's mostly stupid shit too. :eyes:

[crim son]

29. I know all about the stupid shit.

I've had to fight to be allowed to take my sick child to a doctor, but I've also been yelled at for doing too much reading, or not eating the leftovers fast enough. The STBE is a strong, intelligent and interesting man but I don't love him and I have not loved him for years.

If my life goes to hell, it's going to be because I fucked up, not because some man fucked up and I went along with it like the scared mouse I've been all these years. :hug: Hugs, NWC!

[SPKrazy]

36. Then You And I Were Separated At College

this is really getting complex

birth separations

college separations

dealing with independence vs. dependence vs. stupid shit

Most things are stupid shit ya know?

:loveya: :hug:

[NewWaveChick1981]

37. Kevin Bacon must be involved in this somehow...

:hug: :rofl: :yoiks:

And yes, most things are stupid shit.... :eyes:

[SPKrazy]

38. Some Kind Of Bacon, Kevin or Otherwise

I feel connected by bacon to you NWC ROFL!

:loveya: :hug: :thumbsup:

[NewWaveChick1981]

39. Hmmm... I'm not sure how to take that....

:rofl: :loveya: Sir Francis Bacon, Kevin Bacon, or Oscar Meyer Bacon?

[SPKrazy]

41. Anyway You Want!

I'm series!!111!!!


:loveya: :rofl:

[Courtesy Flush]

35. Dictate?

You must be doing something wrong. You could take lessons from my wife.

[BarenakedLady]

14. Yo!

:hi:

Working on it...





not that anyone cares anymore.

[Guava Jelly]

17. ....

:hug: some people care :)

[BarenakedLady]

19. Thanks babe

I can always count on you to make me feel better. :hug:

You, unlike some, are not a fly-by-night fair-weather friend, and I appreciate it. :loveya:

[Guava Jelly]

20. Anytime honey

:hug: :loveya:

[NewWaveChick1981]

27. I hear ya!

:hi: :hug:

[SPKrazy]

43. Oh Bulloney!

I care

lots of folks care

I lurve you!

:hug: :loveya:

[SPKrazy]

15. ...

Here

present

accounted for

wish, and practically am...

not the place to be actually

:(

kinda sucks

[NewWaveChick1981]

30. ...

:hi: Yeah, it does... but good to see you anyway, SPK!

[SPKrazy]

34. ...

ALWAYS good to see you NWC

:evilgrin: :smoke:

[SPKrazy]

44. ...

Actually, the day just keeps getting better

I think that I'm happier at this moment, than I've been in my marriage in 10 years!

that's a really scary thought actually, but true

:rofl:

[Road Scholar]

16. ...

:hi:

[NewWaveChick1981]

31. ...

:loveya: :hi:

[Writer]

18. Here!

Although giving up Mr. Writer would be a bit tough. :P

[NewWaveChick1981]

32. I know what you mean...

:hi: :) :pals:

[SeattleGirl]

21. I don't so much wish I were single as I wish I were with the

right person.

[BarenakedLady]

22. Yes

That says it. :thumbsup:

[Redbear]

23. Ooh yes,

Thats a good one.

[NewWaveChick1981]

33. ...

:hug: I hope it gets better for you soon. :pals:

[SeattleGirl]

40. Thanks darlin'

:hug: :pals:

[SPKrazy]

45. Yup Sis!

I can totally relate to that

which is why I sleep in the guest room ROFL

and we dance the dance of the doomed marriage in its last throes as we try to do whatever the hell it is we're doing now.

:rofl:

[SeattleGirl]

46. "....as we try to do whatever the hell it is we're doing now."

If you figure it out, bro, let me know! :rofl:

[SPKrazy]

47. I've Figured It Out Sis

it's just a question of whether that can ever change, or if it is doomed to end.

That's all

:hug: :shrug:

[SeattleGirl]

48. Well, I've been hoping something would change for the

past 7 years, but it hasn't. Guess I have my answer, huh?

[SPKrazy]

49. Could Be!

Me for 10 years

nothing changes

I'm not perfect by any means

it is what it is...

and it ain't working

:hug:

[SeattleGirl]

50. True, that.

It is what it is. MrSG is a great person, but when something's missing, it's missing. :hug:

[SPKrazy]

55. I'm Sorry

Mrs. SPK is a good person too. A good mother. Has many good qualities.

But when something is missing, it's missing! Yes indeed.

And when it never changes, and you've tried to work that out over and over, and you seek outside help for that and it still isn't there.

Then what do you have to work with? (you being me)

I'm thinking the answer is there isn't anything left to work with.

But the jury is still out I suppose? Not really, but that's the official word.

:hug:

[Wapsie B]

42. Here!

I can relate all too well.

[SeattleGirl]

51. bwa!!!

Haven't seen you around much lately. :hug:

[Wapsie B]

52. SG!!!

I haven't seen you around either. I'm here somedays when I need my fix.

:hug:

[SeattleGirl]

53. Been trying to spend a bit less time here.

Not because there's anything wrong with DU; but I've really slacked off on my book reading, and I have several that I bought that I haven't gotten to yet. (Man, this place is addictive!)

[Wapsie B]

54. Yes I have too.

I've got a lot of things going on right now. It is addictive here. Especially with people like you here. :)

[NewWaveChick1981]

56. ...

:hug: :hi: Glad you understand but sorry you're going through that. :pals:

[Wapsie B]

57. ...

Oh I definitely understand. Yeah I'm sorry that you're going through that too. Hopefully all of us on this thread can move on to something better for us. :pals:

:hug: :hi: