My best friend has now decided

[MoseyWalker]

that she loves me.

what to do?

I always knew she loved me, but...........

she loves me.

what to do?

[boston bean]

1. love her back??

[Sanity Claws]

2. Why is this a problem?

Is either one of you married? If so, that's a problem. Otherwise, to be in love with your best friend sounds great, like a solid foundation to a serious relationship.

[MoseyWalker]

3. my best friend has known me

for 9 years, and loves me.

it's not something I would expect or be used to.

I love her, but I'm nuts. At least, most would think and say so.

I didn't think I would ever get a love me or love me more thing from her.

[boston bean]

5. r u happy about it tho? do you love her back?? nt

[wildhorses]

4. quit wringing your hands and commence to

you know :evilgrin:

[CaliforniaPeggy]

6. My dear MoseyWalker!

If she loves you after knowing you for nine years.........

Then obviously she knows a lot about you!

And loves you inspite of or maybe because of all of it!

Hell, why don't you marry her?

[MoseyWalker]

8. Because

I'm nuts.

Been there, done that, been living another life for many years, not needing that, fearful.

I ain't your average bearette.

[Omphaloskepsis]

7. Wow, you are fucked.. And not in in good way.

It sounds like you don't love her like that.. If you did you wouldn't be posting this here. I love my friend Aaron. He can sleep in my tent, just not in my sleeping bag.

It might hurt her, but you could try being honest with her. Wasting her time is a total dick-move.

[MoseyWalker]

9. I've been totally honest

and open, and it doesn't seem to matter.

I'm shut in my little room right now to avoid a "confrontation".

whoa

[Sanity Claws]

10. I'm not following

What have you been honest and open about? That you won't marry again? That you simply don't love her that way? Have you articulated what you're afraid of? Afraid of your own feelings and getting hurt?