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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 10:45 AM
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I am officially a parasite. Took a leave of absence from school.
The STBE is mind-bogglingly understanding thank god.
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 10:50 AM
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1. welcome to my side of life

:shrug:


BTW :hug: have you thought of taking only one class at at time?
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 10:53 AM
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3. That is what I've been doing.
My car transmission seized and I can't afford to fix it, nor can I afford to take a taxi out to the school every day, which I would have to do because of the nature of the course. It's like my whole world is grinding to a halt and I can do nothing to get it moving. This is the first time in my life that I've been completely, totally, utterly useless. Joani, if this is your side of life, you gotta get out! :hug:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:06 AM
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10. Have you tried posting a note in the student union?

Transmissions are expensive!

Is there any way you can ride to school with someone or take a bus?
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 10:50 AM
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2. You ok?
What's up? Or down as the case may be....:(
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 10:55 AM
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4. I don't know exactly.
A relapse. I need time to... I don't know. You know? :(
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:05 AM
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9. Unfortunately yes.
I do. :(
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:46 AM
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17. I'm a fine example, aren't I?
All talk and no action. I'm sorry about that, BNL.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:51 AM
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20. I think we are in sync
Today we are both in the pit. What should we do to make ourselves feel better?
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:53 AM
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22. The shower didn't work.
Let me think about it. Maybe go back to bed?
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:57 AM
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23. I would but
The speech teacher(s) are here with the little one...maybe after they leave.

Is it too early to start drinking?
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 01:29 PM
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26. I think that will make it worse. STBE took me grocery shopping
and now I will fall asleep.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 01:41 PM
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27. Right now...
It can't get any worse. Have a good sleep. I wish I could sleep, but then I'll never want to get up.
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 10:55 AM
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5. .
:hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 10:58 AM
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6. Ah.
I appreciate the hug. I think I'll run away and have a shower, wash this man right out of my hair, Calgon take me away etc. etc. Hi billyskank :hi: Sorry to hear about your poooooooooo situation.
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:02 AM
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8. I will be fine, sweetie
Thank you. I am more bothered about you. :hug:
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:00 AM
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7. I hope it works out for you.
:hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:42 AM
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13. Me too, because the alternative is - what?
:scared: I think I need a break, that's all.
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:15 AM
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11. Yay!
A fellow parasite! (Although, we lifer's prefer to call ourselves... Symbionts)

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Symbiosis

Pull up a chair! Kick off your shoes! Put your feet on the coffee table! Enjoy!

We here at the DU Lunchroom Dork Table celebrate new faces! :thumbsup:

:grouphug:












Seriously, tho... Keep in mind, this like all things shall pass.

:hug: :*
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:44 AM
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14. You gave me a good laugh, Prag.
I've spent many years helping others so perhaps I should not feel too terribly guilty about now relying on others. It will pass. True. :pals:
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:50 AM
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19. No person is an island...
it's really true crim son.

Only additional thing I might add is to find trustworthy others to rely on.

:D
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:53 AM
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21. The only person I trust is the husband I'm leaving.
It makes it awkward.
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 12:04 PM
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24. Hmm...
It would seem you need to expand your social envelope.

I have full confidence in your abilities. It'll take some time, but, you'll
do it.

:)
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Brewman_Jax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:27 AM
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12. Take a break
sounds like you can use one. :hi:

:hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:45 AM
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15. It does seem so.
There's this brick wall in front of me, anyway. Cain't go nowhere!
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:45 AM
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16. I hope you're doing okay.
:hug:

I hope hte leave of absence helps.
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 11:48 AM
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18. I hope the same thing.
I've never been particularly good at juggling more than a few pins at a time. The family, the separation/divorce, the sale of the house, the money problems, the broken heart and school... apparently I have overloaded myself and I must back away from some of it. Thank you, Thom.
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Redbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 12:32 PM
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25. Simplifying is often a good idea when things are out of control.

I've been there too (the pit). It's no fun, but it does get better.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-18-07 01:42 PM
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28. Pfffftttt!
nonsense

parasite, BS

:hug:
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