A person who used to have lunch with me is now saying "can't, errands" often...

[Deja Q]

Even when we plan times out two+ weeks in advance.

I want to believe, but it's becoming so frequent.

Have I changed? Am I now coming across creepy beyond a tolerable level? Or am I paranoid and it's just a string of coincidences, which might be the case as well.

And if it is because she's uncomfortable around me and doesn't want to say anything bad (which has happened with other people as well), that's fine too. I wouldn't have understood or fathomed 10 years ago, but I have no hard feelings (figuratively or literally, I know she's got somebody in her life and I'm not the type to interfere...)