Damn.. I think she wants a, "relationship" brrrrrr.

[HEyHEY]

Shit. So I went to kiss her and she turned away. I sez, "Sorry, was that wrong?"
She replies, "You could at least ask."
So I ask.
I get kissed.
I kiss her again a bit later.
Then we walk home.... I invite her in. She says no.
Then gives me another kiss and walks off.

Frig, that's a sign of a girl who wants a boyfriend.... I think.

Damn.

[wildhorses]

1. you say it like its a bad thing--

:hi:

[HEyHEY]

2. For me, right now, it is

[wildhorses]

3. oh well,

plenty of fish in the sea;) better luck next time

[Maine-ah]

5. maybe you should be upfront with her about that.

less chance of anyone getting hurt.

[BikeWriter]

4. Oh shit, does that translate to she's hurt?

I'm not sure, Pard. I've been married most of the last thirty-five years, but to three women. :shrug:

[HEyHEY]

9. WHo knows?

[JVS]

6. well just never call her again

problem solved

[HEyHEY]

8. well..yeah

Or something like that. I should tell her... "look, if you wanna be with me... I have to be able to see other women."

I'm sure that'll charm her.

[JVS]

10. Or just keep quiet and keep telling yourself that just because it's a relationship doesn't mean...

it has to be a happy relatioship. Be the cheating dog you've always wondered about what it would like to be.

[HEyHEY]

11. you are a wise, wise man

I think a "Dear JVS" column may be in order

[JVS]

12. The scumbag advisory

[asthmaticeog]

7. You might as well just start playing for the other team at this point, man.

[BlueIris]

13. Dude, WHERE do you meet these women?

'Member that plan you had to "become a 'male slut'"? To simply cruise the bars of your area looking for nothing more than cheap, meaningless sex? What happened to that? I think you've deviated from it or something because it seems as if you keep hooking up with these people are are the EXACT OPPOSITE of what you are trying to attract. Are you going to the wrong bars?

[HEyHEY]

14. Perhaps that's it

Something to think about. I need to stick to the plan dammit!

[JVS]

15. Next stop, the sorority house

[Susang]

19. You can't always get what you want

But if you try sometimes, you just might find you get what you need. :evilgrin:

[BlueIris]

20. Yeah, but it's like H.H. keeps attracting the ladies who're about the commitment,

but not Teh Sex. And for someone who wants the opposite...I don't think throwing out a big net and hoping for the best is working for him. He needs a smaller, less...wholesome net? Either that or he needs to learn to fake "honesty." Watch "Swingers," H.H. It's all in there.

[HEyHEY]

24. haha

Yeah... I just hate being even remotely manipulative.
And you watch, once this phase is over... I won't meet any girls who want a commitment... grrr.

[Evoman]

16. Remember...until you have had an "exlusivity talk", you are not exclusive.

Date other women...you don't have to tell her directly, but don't make it a secret. If she has a problem with it, tough. Make no promises, and you don't have to keep any promises.

[HEyHEY]

17. Now, that's good advice

[madeline_con]

22. I agree.

She has no exclusive rights, and neither do you, until you two have the talk (if you ever do).

She may be looking to hook up for a good time only. Not all women want to get serious.

Keep a raincoat on you at all times, BTW. :p

[sam sarrha]

18. ..

[madeline_con]

21. Are you gonna have to ask EVERY time before you kiss her? n/t

I'm just wondering if it's shades of things to come. I mean, unless she spcifically says, "no", wouldn't it make the whole thing just weird?

"May I shift my wieight over, so my arm is touching your side?" :eyes:

[HEyHEY]

23. This is true - she kissed ME at the end of the night

I should have stopped and said, "Hey! What am I? A piece of meat? You didn't even ask!"