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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:24 PM Original message |
How do you say, "You don't have a prayer of a chance with me, so piss off..." |
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LeftyMom
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:31 PM Response to Original message |
1. Restraining order. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:36 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Really? Do you think that he needs to go to that length? |
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LeftyMom
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:47 PM Response to Reply #4 |
20. Growing up, I had a friend who used to do stuff like this, when we were teens. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:51 PM Response to Reply #20 |
28. Your teen friend of yore is this woman.... |
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Bucky
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:19 PM Response to Reply #20 |
53. "a penis and a van away from being the villain in a lifetime movie" |
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fudge stripe cookays
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Tue Jan-30-07 02:59 PM Response to Reply #4 |
87. She sounds like an "erotomaniac" |
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sendero
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:25 PM Response to Reply #1 |
55. This isn't attraction.. |
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MichiganVote
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:28 PM Response to Reply #55 |
102. Agree. Stalking. And...can be dangerous... |
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Redstone
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
2. Two words: Restraining Order. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:37 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Crap. |
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Redstone
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:42 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. No magic, I'm afraid. |
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Shakespeare
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:47 PM Response to Reply #2 |
21. Second that. And don't wait, either. |
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KitchenWitch
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
3. He needs to be direct and tell her that she has no chance |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:42 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. That's what I think, too. |
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KitchenWitch
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:44 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. He just needs to rip the scab off as it were |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:50 PM Response to Reply #16 |
25. I am copying and saving your comment. |
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KitchenWitch
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:51 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. Anytime my friend! |
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Ghost in the Machine
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:25 PM Response to Reply #11 |
56. Your friend sounds a lot like me... almost too much. It's scarey... |
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JVS
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
5. You need and intervention where everyone involved lets her know she's a douchebag |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:43 PM Response to Reply #5 |
15. Won't work. |
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JVS
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:45 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. LOL I feel awful for laughing, but the idea of nobody caring enough for an... |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:48 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. Well, I'm not kidding! |
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JVS
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:37 PM Response to Original message |
7. plan 2: taser |
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
8. He doesn't need a restraining order. He needs to be blunt. |
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wildhorses
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:42 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. be blunt and straight to the point |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:46 PM Response to Reply #8 |
19. I agree. |
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Shakespeare
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:49 PM Response to Reply #8 |
24. Disagree. She's STALKING him. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:55 PM Response to Reply #24 |
31. Speaking of which... |
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hippywife
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:18 PM Response to Reply #31 |
52. If he can't confront her directly |
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philosophie_en_rose
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:44 PM Response to Reply #24 |
71. Maybe she believes that they are friends. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:47 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. She's telling people that she is in love with him and that they are dating. |
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jus_the_facts
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
9. Sounds like he needs to get a restrainin' order.... |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:56 PM Response to Reply #9 |
32. Yeah, I'm of the "fuck off" school. |
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Mojambo
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
10. I agree with LeftyMom |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:57 PM Response to Reply #10 |
33. I'm going to print out this thread.... |
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SeattleGirl
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
14. I recommend a restraining order, also. He is being stalked, no |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:59 PM Response to Reply #14 |
34. I just don't think that he sees her as dangerous. |
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SeattleGirl
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:07 PM Response to Reply #34 |
45. Your friend sounds like a nice guy who doesn't want to hurt her. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:13 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. I know that. You are right. |
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fudge stripe cookays
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Tue Jan-30-07 03:05 PM Response to Reply #48 |
89. Has anyone just flat out told her... |
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Kali
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
17. documentation of nuttiness, "fuck-off", restraining order |
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JVS
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:48 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. right |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:01 PM Response to Reply #17 |
36. Yeah, I think that you are right. |
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lizziegrace
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
26. Maddy, the others are right |
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SPKrazy
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:54 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. I Think You've Got It! |
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lizziegrace
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:59 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. Thanks! |
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SPKrazy
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:04 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. ... |
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lizziegrace
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:05 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. I'll never live that down |
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SPKrazy
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:08 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. Nah |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:03 PM Response to Reply #26 |
37. Well, some rumours have circulated about mental instability.... |
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KitchenWitch
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:04 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. I would not rule BPD out (bipolar disorder) |
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lizziegrace
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:04 PM Response to Reply #37 |
40. Hard to say |
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SPKrazy
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:06 PM Response to Reply #37 |
43. The Label Is Less Important Than The Behavior |
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jpgray
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Sun Jan-28-07 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
29. Ultimatum |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:05 PM Response to Reply #29 |
42. I agree.... |
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KitchenWitch
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:07 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. He needs to tell her for sure that he is not getting his work done |
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jpgray
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:13 PM Response to Reply #42 |
47. That's tough to say--the "I'm very flattered" route is out |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:15 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. THANK YOU. |
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AlCzervik
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:15 PM Response to Reply #47 |
50. exactly because if he doesn't say the bit about not even wanting to be friends |
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jpgray
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:16 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Yep. Harsh, but with some stalker-types you can't leave any doubt |
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Dude_CalmDown
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Sun Jan-28-07 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
54. This actually happens to me a lot - a fucking lot |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:27 PM Response to Reply #54 |
61. You know this girl? |
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mopinko
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
57. he should be honest and upfront. no nonsense. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:28 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. Thanks for this, mopinko. |
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mopinko
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:35 PM Response to Reply #62 |
64. well, it was a long time ago. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:38 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. This woman is freshly divorced, too. |
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AWESOM-O
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
58. Show him this: |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:29 PM Response to Reply #58 |
63. Only thing is... |
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Left Is Write
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
59. It's time to be heartless. She is harrassing him at best, stalking him at worst. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:36 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. Yeah, I have been through it, too, LiW... |
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Left Is Write
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
60. Also, you might suggest he rent and view "Play Misty For Me." |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:38 PM Response to Reply #60 |
68. Eeek! |
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wildhorses
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
65. why not say it just like you said it here? |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:43 PM Response to Reply #65 |
70. Nah, I can tell you that this guy is not liking the attention. |
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philosophie_en_rose
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:42 PM Response to Original message |
69. By saying nothing, he is leading her on. He knows she is clueless. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:46 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. See, that's where I disagree. I think that we are all responsible for our own actions. |
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tinfoilinfor2005
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
74. He could tell her he's gay and has no interest in her. |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 11:05 PM Response to Reply #74 |
77. Well, I don't think it'd phase her. |
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struggle4progress
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Sun Jan-28-07 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
75. How about escalated comments, with witnesses? |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 11:08 PM Response to Reply #75 |
79. All excellent advice. |
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Lydia Leftcoast
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Sun Jan-28-07 11:05 PM Response to Original message |
76. My stalker kept stalking as long as I "tried to be nice" |
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Maddy McCall
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Sun Jan-28-07 11:06 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. Yeah, I think doing it in front of people is going to be necessary. |
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rockymountaindem
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Sun Jan-28-07 11:42 PM Response to Original message |
80. Dig a moat around the office and install a drawbridge |
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liontamer
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Sun Jan-28-07 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
81. erotomaniac |
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Kali
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Tue Jan-30-07 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
82. So what happened? |
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Shakespeare
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Tue Jan-30-07 02:47 PM Response to Reply #82 |
84. Kick for Maddy. |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 02:55 PM Response to Reply #82 |
86. I was out of town yesterday during the day... |
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texas1928
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Tue Jan-30-07 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
83. Everybody in the office needs to tell her that, hey only employees allowed. |
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idgiehkt
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Tue Jan-30-07 03:05 PM Response to Reply #83 |
88. Duh. |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 06:22 PM Response to Reply #88 |
91. You've got quiet an imagination. |
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idgiehkt
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Tue Jan-30-07 06:36 PM Response to Reply #91 |
93. Possibly. |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 06:45 PM Response to Reply #93 |
94. When a guy (or gal) friend asks me for help or advice, I listen. |
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idgiehkt
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Tue Jan-30-07 06:48 PM Response to Reply #94 |
95. It alarmed me |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 06:57 PM Response to Reply #95 |
96. You do have reading comprehension problems. |
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idgiehkt
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:05 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. my own situation? |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:14 PM Response to Reply #97 |
98. You're pinning things on me that just aren't so. |
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idgiehkt
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:28 PM Response to Reply #98 |
103. lol |
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texas1928
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:34 PM Response to Reply #91 |
107. Okay you two... |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:36 PM Response to Reply #107 |
111. How big's your paddle? |
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texas1928
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:36 PM Response to Reply #111 |
112. I use my hand. |
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idgiehkt
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:37 PM Response to Reply #107 |
113. I'm done. |
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Madspirit
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Tue Jan-30-07 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
85. Stalking |
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MissMillie
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Tue Jan-30-07 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
90. If he's afraid of hurting her feelings he could always lie |
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Evoman
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Tue Jan-30-07 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
92. Tell him to say this: |
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trof
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
99. Could he show up with a date somewhere she will be? |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:34 PM Response to Reply #99 |
109. I think that she'd "forgive" that. |
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trof
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:48 PM Response to Reply #109 |
119. Psychotic. Is she a groupie? |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 08:50 PM Response to Reply #119 |
123. Yep... |
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gardenista
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
100. It concerns me that you're so concerned with someone else's social life |
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trof
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:25 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. It concerns me that you're concerned about her concern. |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:30 PM Response to Reply #101 |
105. . |
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gardenista
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:31 PM Response to Reply #101 |
106. Oh no! This could go on forever! |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:29 PM Response to Reply #100 |
104. Thanks for your advice. |
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gardenista
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:34 PM Response to Reply #104 |
108. Something sounds very strange about this situation. |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:35 PM Response to Reply #108 |
110. I have no desire to handle it. |
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pokerfan
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:39 PM Response to Original message |
114. I got about halfway through |
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SOteric
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:43 PM Response to Original message |
115. The "Civil 'Fuck Off'" |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:46 PM Response to Reply #115 |
116. That, m'dear, is a work of art. |
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trof
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:50 PM Response to Reply #116 |
120. I second that emotion. |
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lizziegrace
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:47 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. Wow... |
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Q3JR4
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Tue Jan-30-07 09:26 PM Response to Reply #115 |
125. I like it... |
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XemaSab
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Tue Jan-30-07 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
118. Maybe you should talk to her |
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Tue Jan-30-07 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
121. Two words and a link. |
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mtnester
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Tue Jan-30-07 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
122. Maddy, as someone who HAS been stalked |
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crim son
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Tue Jan-30-07 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
124. Call me stupid but I don't find this situation to be either crazy |
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Hosnon
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Tue Jan-30-07 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
126. Meet me at Hal and Mal's in 20 minutes and I'll explain... |
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Maddy McCall
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Tue Jan-30-07 09:57 PM Response to Reply #126 |
127. Tell ya what... |
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