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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 08:30 AM Original message |
How much does your SO restrict you? and how much are you ok with? |
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izzybeans
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Wed Jan-31-07 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
1. She doesn't. |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 08:56 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. my so knows that some of my friends have been lovers in the past |
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izzybeans
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:51 AM Response to Reply #3 |
13. I think that is a great position to be in concerning friends and SO's. |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
2. to reply to my own thread |
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crim son
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:22 AM Response to Original message |
4. The STBE restricted everything from how long I was at the |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:24 AM Response to Reply #4 |
5. sorry. sounds terrible. |
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crim son
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:26 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. One gets used to it, that's the alarming thing. |
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av8rdave
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:26 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. Sounds a lot like my first marriage |
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crim son
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:27 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. I'm glad it worked for you. |
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av8rdave
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:07 AM Response to Reply #9 |
14. I'm so sorry to hear that, and hope it gets resolved for you! |
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av8rdave
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
6. Mine doesn't restrict me at all |
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mondo joe
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:32 AM Response to Original message |
10. My partner (of 17 years) and I generally are on the same page so there's not |
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philosophie_en_rose
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
11. SO should not tell anyone what to do. |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:37 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. ... |
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LynzM
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Wed Jan-31-07 01:00 PM Response to Reply #11 |
33. I agree... |
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Madrone
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
15. Not at ALL. |
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IdaBriggs
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
16. Generally speaking, neither of us do. There are some issues on occasion -- |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:48 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. i think the stripper restriction and "you cant be gone 3 weekends in a month" |
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IdaBriggs
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:35 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. I agree! Of course, it pushed some of his "control" buttons, too, |
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ThomCat
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
18. My SO doesn't restrict me at all |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:52 AM Response to Reply #18 |
19. how are things going with your SO? |
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ThomCat
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:59 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Pretty well. |
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Deep13
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Wed Jan-31-07 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
20. We have a duocracy. We do what we want. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
23. We don't restrict each other. |
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LostinVA
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Wed Jan-31-07 01:05 PM Response to Reply #23 |
35. Exactly -- self respect and respect for the person you love isn't a restriction |
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Critters2
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
24. My experience in counseling couples tells me |
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kwassa
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:44 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Great advice. There can be no such restrictions. |
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Critters2
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Wed Jan-31-07 01:53 PM Response to Reply #25 |
37. They certainly should be a red flag |
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NewWaveChick1981
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
26. I have never restricted anyone I've dated or been in a relationship with. |
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LadyoftheRabbits
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
27. Not at all... |
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ZombieNixon
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:50 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. ... |
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LadyoftheRabbits
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:52 PM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Good morning, baby... |
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ZombieNixon
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:55 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Oops, cache autofill bit me in the ass. |
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LadyoftheRabbits
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:56 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. *snorts* |
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BarenakedLady
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Wed Jan-31-07 12:49 PM Response to Original message |
28. Not at all. |
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LostinVA
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Wed Jan-31-07 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
34. I think a better word to use would be "controls," not "restrictions" |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 01:29 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. i wanted to hear about both healthy and unhealthy restrictions. |
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LostinVA
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Wed Jan-31-07 01:54 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. Sorry for the confusion -- the OP didn't read like that to me |
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Madspirit
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:00 PM Response to Original message |
39. Only Monogamy |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:01 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. both sound like healthy restrictions. |
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Madspirit
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:01 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. PS |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:09 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. i dont think Rockit is friends with her ex's |
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AlCzervik
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
43. one restriction by me to someone my husband used to work with- |
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idgiehkt
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Wed Jan-31-07 04:43 PM Response to Reply #43 |
54. kick some ass girlfriend |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:14 PM Response to Reply #43 |
70. You told her good. |
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NJCher
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:40 PM Response to Original message |
44. I haven't read any responses |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:41 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. cya. |
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Madspirit
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:46 PM Response to Reply #44 |
47. Huh? |
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:50 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. why thank you madspirit. |
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Madspirit
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:52 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Some People |
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idgiehkt
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Wed Jan-31-07 04:56 PM Response to Reply #47 |
56. seconded. |
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SeattleGirl
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
45. We haven't done that to each other, with one exception. |
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pdx_prog
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Wed Jan-31-07 02:46 PM Response to Original message |
48. Mine doesn't restrict me at all... |
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youthere
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Wed Jan-31-07 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
51. 1. Not at all and 2.Not at all. |
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Jimbo S
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Wed Jan-31-07 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
52. No restrictions at all |
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RedStateShame
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Wed Jan-31-07 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
53. She only restricts me when the chain starts choking me. |
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idgiehkt
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Wed Jan-31-07 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
55. I've never been successful with this |
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redqueen
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Wed Jan-31-07 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
57. my soon to be ex SO restricts me to an unreasonable degree |
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Left Is Write
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Wed Jan-31-07 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
58. He doesn't restrict me, nor I him. We don't have any need to. |
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jgraz
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Wed Jan-31-07 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
59. Mine generally prefers that I don't sleep with other people |
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trof
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Wed Jan-31-07 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
60. You have GOT to be kidding. |
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NNadir
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Wed Jan-31-07 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
61. Not at all. Neither do I attempt to restrict her. |
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Shell Beau
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Wed Jan-31-07 06:49 PM Response to Original message |
62. There are no restrictions. |
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Dastard Stepchild
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Wed Jan-31-07 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
63. No restrictions, but... |
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flvegan
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Wed Jan-31-07 07:41 PM Response to Reply #63 |
67. I'd yell at you too. |
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Dastard Stepchild
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:09 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. lol... |
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Dean Martin
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Wed Jan-31-07 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
64. ???????????? |
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WindRavenX
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Wed Jan-31-07 07:14 PM Response to Original message |
65. no restrictions |
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Evoman
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Wed Jan-31-07 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
66. We don't....and neither of us is overly jealous. The only restriction we have is: don't fuck other |
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jpgray
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Wed Jan-31-07 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
69. I don't have any restrictions for her, and hers for me fall in with how I behave anyway |
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