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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 04:40 PM
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Gender Listings! Question!
Edited on Thu Mar-01-07 04:40 PM by Madspirit
In user's profiles some of you refuse to list your gender. I am simply curious. Is this a social experiment, a political statement, are YOU undecided or do you simply think it's no one's business?

I really want to know. :popcorn:
Lee
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 04:45 PM
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1. I can't speak for others. As for myself, I'm not comfortable listing a gender since that
whole creamed cheese in the blender thing.
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 04:56 PM
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2. You're really disturbed.
I like that in a person.
LeeB-)
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:12 PM
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3. A quote from a friend's email
"for a long time I did not reveal my gender at various blogs. I do believe my postings were taken more seriously and I got higher ratings before I was, slowly, eventually outed as female. grrr."

For women, it's a relief to be able to discuss something without being discmissed before opening their mouth.
For men who are pro-feminist, it's chance to even out the interactions by voluntarily giving up some of their standing
For men who want to disrupt discussions of women's rights, they can pass themselves off as gender neutral (usually they manage to out themselves at the first post, though)
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:14 PM
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4. I list myself as female, but it apparently doesn't matter if I did or not.
I've been accused to being a man multiple times on here. So has my SO.

:eyes:

Of course, there are enough DUers who have met us to know that we're really women.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:15 PM
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5. I can vouch for that.
:D
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:17 PM
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6. Hell, there's photographic proof of the three of us.
It also serves as proof that we like to drink.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:17 PM
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7. We also must get stoned.
:smoke:
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:18 PM
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8. DO NOT BOGART!! Please.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:20 PM
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10. I'll try not to.
;)
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:19 PM
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9. Well, you were the only one stoned in the picture.
Honestly, I like weed, but it makes me anti-social. So it's a good thing I wasn't stoned at the bar.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:21 PM
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11. I wasn't stoned -- that's just how I look.
:rofl:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:22 PM
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13. I was buzzed. I just normally look that way.
:rofl:

At least I wasn't rubbing buffalo sauce hands on anyone, like somebody else was.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:23 PM
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14. Yes, I enjoyed watching that.
:rofl:
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:25 PM
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15. I wasn't sure whether to laugh or kill her.
And I wasn't trusting her buzzed ass to not stain my nice pink polo shirt.

:rofl:
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:21 PM
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12. Stoned
People make me anti-social. Pot helps.

Lee
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JustABozoOnThisBus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 06:36 PM
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19. Can we get a link to that?
:rofl:
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 05:36 PM
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16. I assume they're female.
I don't think guys care.
Is that sexist?
:shrug:
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 06:18 PM
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17. I didn't list my gender at first.

Once people guessed that I was female I figured I might as well change it. :rofl:

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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 06:20 PM
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18. Yeah, I don't know too many guys named Nicole.
;-)
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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-01-07 06:40 PM
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20. Yeah, I don't know too many men named Radio Lady...
I've been outed as a female from the "get-go" --
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