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northofdenali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:19 PM
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My father-in-law died yesterday.
He was 86. He came to Alaska in 1948, and lived his first winter here in a wall tent. Margaret and Michael were with him - Michael was 6. Margaret was.... adventurous.

Wall tent:


Actually, this is pretty delux - you didn't get these options in 1948. Dale thought he was going to be close to his family when he went to work in FortyMile Country.

Nope.

FortyMile is about 200 miles from Fairbanks, north of Tok, and named for the Forty Mile River. First Ooops.

Got Margaret pregnant. Yep. Wooooooweeeeeeeeee. My spouse!!!! She refused to give birth in Fairbanks because she thought the only local OB guy was an asshole. He was.

So he gets born in Oregon, instead. Oh well, there are worse places.

Dad built the Hot Springs Road. And the Hickel Highway. And most of the rest of every paved/graveled etc. road in this state. And you should hear his tales about hauling idiots out of various - um - nasty washouts etc. (especially on the Steese).

God, I'll miss him.
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Monkeyman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:22 PM
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1. You know my heart is with you RIP
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:23 PM
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2. I'm really sorry.
He sounds like a neat guy and an adventurer! May he RIP.
Lee
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TheDebbieDee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:24 PM
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3. RIP, F-I-L of NorthofDenali.........
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NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:24 PM
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4. I am sorry for your loss.
May is spirit be at rest, wherever it may be.
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flamingyouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:25 PM
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5. I'm so sorry for your loss.
May he RIP. :hug:
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Radio_Lady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:26 PM
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6. Wonderful memories! I could hope that an in-law relative would ever say such beautiful things when
Edited on Sun Mar-04-07 10:30 PM by Radio_Lady
I am gone.

I have lit a candle for your father-in-law...

You can see it for the next 48 hours at:

http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.cfm?l=eng&cid=2827110

In peace,

Radio Lady

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illinoisprogressive Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:28 PM
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7. I am so sorry about it. he looks like he will be in a beautiful place to rest.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:29 PM
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8. Wow, nice story about FIL, RIP FIL
It is good to read about the early Alaskans, or would that be the early developers? Sounds like quite a man. RIP and my condolences.

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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:32 PM
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9. Best wishes to you and your husband.
:hug:
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AwakeAtLast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:37 PM
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10. {{{{northofdenali and family}}}}
Thoughts and prayers to you and the whole family. :hug:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:42 PM
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11. My dear friend, I'm so sorry.
Ah, these people, where do they get off leaving us to miss them like this?

:hug:
((((((((((((northofdenali and family)))))))))))))))))
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yellerpup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 10:47 PM
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12. My sympathies are with you and your family.
He sounds like a really interesting man. His life would make an interesting book. I'm sure you will all miss him, but remember him for the color he brought to your lives.:hug:
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:02 PM
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13. I'm sorry, northofdenali.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:17 PM
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14. May he rest in peace and live forever in your memories...
....my condolences to you and yours. :hug:
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rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:20 PM
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15. My condolences n/t
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Shine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:23 PM
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16. Blessings to your beloved father-in-law on his journey.
Peace and Comfort to your entire family. :hug:
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:47 PM
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17. I am sorry, sweetie. Aren't the older Alaskans tons of fun? They did
so damned much in such hard conditions, they are heroes. I CANNOT IMAGINE spending winter in a tent north of Tok. I have seen windchills there of -60. What a great man he must have been. My dad helped build the Interstate 5 and drove pipe on the Prudhoe Road. No one makes men like them anymore. My most sincere condolences to you and your family and may your father-in-law rest in peace. Or better yet, drive D-8 cat with my dad in heaven. Take care, my friend.
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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:48 PM
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18. Sorry for your loss
Even though we know that nobody can live forever, it doesn't make it any easier when that beloved person isn't there to turn to and share a laugh, a tear or just a quiet moment. I guess we just have to hold on to the ones who are still with us a little tighter.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:49 PM
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19. I'm so sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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SCRUBDASHRUB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-04-07 11:55 PM
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20. I'm sorry to hear of your loss. May he rest in peace.
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u4ic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 01:09 AM
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21. My sincere condolences
to you and your family, northofdenali. :hug:
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 01:36 AM
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22. A fine tribute you've written...
It sounds like he and your mother-in-law were quite the pioneers. :-)

I'm so sorry for your loss. :hug:
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 02:12 AM
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23. I'm so very sorry NorthofDenali
My deepest, sincerest and most profound thoughts, prayers and condolences are with you and your family:hug: :hug: :hug:
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wildhorses Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 02:45 AM
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24. i miss him--
please, i am crazy ...but his spirit just hovered over me for a minute...i am crying. my condolences to you and his son. i ask his spirit to guide over me and the road problem i am currently encountering. thank you for introducing me to him. he is a good man.
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Pushed To The Left Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 02:55 AM
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25. I'm sorry to hear about your loss
:hug:
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HEyHEY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 02:56 AM
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26. Condolences NOD
:hug:
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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 05:15 AM
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27. My concolences.
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SalmonChantedEvening Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 06:13 AM
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28. My deepest sympathies northofdenali
Edited on Mon Mar-05-07 06:14 AM by SalmonChantedEvening
:hug: :cry: :hug:
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Th1onein Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 10:14 AM
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29. I am so sorry.
May he rest in peace.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 10:16 AM
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30. I am very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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northofdenali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-05-07 04:01 PM
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31. How much I love you all, DU'ers - thank you, thank you,.
Edited on Mon Mar-05-07 04:01 PM by northofdenali
He was very, very special. Your thoughts will help us through.

:loveya: DU. Thank you all.

Steve & Karen & kitties
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