Why do good hearts break so easy?
Guava Jelly
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:14 AM
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Why do good hearts break so easy? |
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I have found that you can tell a lot about a person by how easily their heart is broken. And I wonder Is it because to have your heart broken you have to offer it up selflessly and hope for the best? :shrug:
And those with colder Hearts I wonder if it is because it has been broken so often that it is unrepairable?
Any thoughts?
I am not broken hearted just FYI this question just hit me and i wanted to hear a few opinions from the peanut Gallery :)
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:15 AM
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1. Good hearts are softer |
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And more prone to breaking. More readily given, yes indeed.
Quite a philosophical question for a Monday morning...ish, no? :D
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:18 AM
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it is quite a philosophical question And thank you for your input. I think i agree with you
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La Lioness Priyanka
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:17 AM
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2. there is a difference between a sensitive/naive person and a good person. |
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its not that a good person cant be sensitive or naive but these are not interchangeabe words.
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:20 AM
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5. Some people are more easily hurt than others |
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I see your point. Good and sensitive vs Good and strong thank you
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:23 AM
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7. yes, i know plenty of people who are very strong and very good. |
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they recuperate from tragedies easily and just have more resilience.
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:26 AM
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8. I think that comes from being more secure with themselves |
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When my heart breaks it normally breaks pretty hard. I envy those who can shake it off and never look back.
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:19 AM
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4. The fuller the heart, the more easily it breaks. |
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:22 AM
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6. Or the harder it breaks |
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Mon Mar-12-07 11:40 AM
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9. Okay, so their heart is easily broken = thin skin nut who should die. |
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Mon Mar-12-07 01:08 PM
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Mon Mar-12-07 12:29 PM
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10. A person whose heart has been broken over and over and over |
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most definitely builds a wall. And yes, this is the voice of experience.
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Mon Mar-12-07 01:09 PM
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14. I have tried to build walls |
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But mine are never that strong
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Mon Mar-12-07 12:34 PM
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11. .... the heart is like any other muscle ... (metaphor alert) |
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... after prolonged abuse and mistreatment, scar tissues build up that make it less flexible, less prone to expansion, it may become hard and begin to atrophy.
Been there. I know. :(
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Mon Mar-12-07 01:09 PM
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15. It is a good Metaphor |
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Mon Mar-12-07 12:50 PM
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12. I don't agree with your premise |
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Many people with good hearts show good will to their fellow man but know that their would will still go on if someone disappoints them, slights them, or leaves them.
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Mon Mar-12-07 01:10 PM
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It is to broad of a topic to generalize. Love is quite complicated.
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