My grandfather, in 1914 -- his first taste of action was Gallipoli, landing with the first waves in the morning of April 25, 1915, and he fought in most of the major battles in Europe until the end of the War, winning the Military Cross along the way. He went to England for machinegun school (one of his classmates was Wilfred Owen -- I've seen a picture of the two of them but I don't have any of the photos my grandfather took during WWI) but otherwise spent most of those years in action and, by his own admission, grew to love the killing.
As a field-promoted officer, he was in charge of small units that penetrated German lines to capture officers and paperwork, kill commanders, blow bridges and other vital installations, and basically create havoc -- it was the precursor of the special ops teams that later evolved. He got one commendation for a raid he led that ended with almost his whole team wiped out by (British) friendly fire, when he somehow got the survivors back to the shifting Allied lines in the middle of the night...the amazing thing about it being that he always had a
terrible sense of direction when I knew him.
When he was alive I knew little of his war exploits -- he would not talk about it and maintained that anyone who did was not in the thick of the action -- but he passed on a few things when he had a spot too much sherry that still haunt me (descriptions of rats chewing on bloated corpses int he mud in Western Europe and a description of the swimming at Gallipoli's beach that is almost exactly like what's depicted in the Peter Weir film of that tragic campaign). After he died I saw a 'mention in dispatches' that earned him some other medal for valor, this one relating to a day (exactly seven weeks before the end of WWII) when, in charge of his decimated platoon (just five strong), he attacked a German machinegun nest by himself and, with grenades, destroyed it, killing ten of the enemy...I had no idea my grandfather was basically Sergeant York.
He was great soldier but a pretty lousy father.
His father, maybe at some time in the 1880s. He hardly saw his youngest son -- youngest of seven brothers and a sister or two, I think -- who had a series of wives and a lot of nannies and so on to make sure the children were "seen and not heard" (this was also how my grandfather tended to prefer my little brother and I). My grandfather was the product of landed gentry, with a lineage filled with lords and barons going back to the big landowners of King Canute's era, but his oldest brother -- 40 years older than him (standing 6'7" -- very tall at the time -- and in the same London club as Robert Louis Stephenson, who hated him so much that he based and named a literary villain after him) inherited and lost all the family's estates within a short period of time and things got so bad that my grandfather was put in an orphanage (a very Dickensian one) and hated life in England so much that he ran off to far away colonies at the age of 14, all alone.
My grandfather always amazed me on several levels, not least because he saw -- when he was very young -- Queen Victoria and before he died he saw men toodling about in space on their little rocket chairs near the space shuttle. He was gassed by the Turks at Gallipoli and the doctors told him he'd likely not survive his 20s...he lost most of the sight in one eye, as a result of the attack, but he lived to be a robust 95 years old. He was 70 when I was born, and I've since read his memoirs regarding his WWI service...they read almost exactly like the script to the film
Gallipoli and it never ceases to amaze me that, like the men depicted in the film, he was once a young man -- a young warrior, no less -- and was not always the old man I knew. One day someone will realize the same of me....that I was once 20 years old, with all the promise and peril of youth.