Okay, I'm going to ask it:

[Deja Q]

Poll question: Okay, I'm going to ask it:

The admissions person at the college I went to - good looking, no wedding ring, nice personality, I was in drool mode.

Do I do the invite for a date question or don't I?

[datasuspect]

1. why the hell not?

what do you have to lose?

you have a 50/50 chance, not bad odds.

you only live once.

give me her number and i'll set it up for you.

[crim son]

2. I'm voting for conflict of interest.

IMHO you should wait until you know the outcome of the interview before you ask this person out.

[Nikia]

10. I agree

You should wait until asking the person out has no relevance to whether you get in or not.
As far as afterwards, it depends on the college atmosphere. For example, if you would start dating and then broke up with the person and then quit the college because of your hurt feelings, would the admissions person possibly face any professional repurcussions.

[mtnester]

3. How about the let's have a leisurely coffee invite?

That is pretty safe, and can be the catalyst to see if it goes further?

[MonkeyFunk]

4. Sure!

go for it!

The worst than can happen is crushing humiliation.

[Deja Q]

5. Note: the people who voted for 'No, I doubt there is any interest in you, toad.' must obviously

have a need to get some with me, which is the only possible reason imaginable for anybody to vote that! :* :D

[GoddessOfGuinness]

6. Are you no longer attending?

If you aren't affiliated with the college anymore, why not?

[liontamer]

7. not if you're applying to that college

that makes you look sleazy. If it's a college you've already graduated from, then you can go for it.

[Esra Star]

8. Find out if he's gay first!

:shrug:

[Deja Q]

9. Actually, it's a lady I'm interested in so now the 3 people who voted 'no interest in you, toad'

probably have some relevance. :evilgrin:



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[Esra Star]

12. Hey HT, I was just ribbing you.

:hi:

[Deja Q]

13. Strangely enough, I don't get ribbed very often...

:rofl:

Understandable, though...

(the tally's also up to 6, eek!)

[JerseyPride]

11. Definite Conflict of interest... But..

once you are admitted... perhaps decidedly less so.

[u4ic]

14. Welcome to DU, JerseyPride!

:toast: