someone keeps using me as a doormat

[datasuspect]

but if i said anything, i'm afraid they wouldn't like me anymore and i don't want to get them mad. i mean, it's not her fault, she's been through a whole lot and what kind of a friend would i be if i made her feel like i didn't care?

[GoddessOfGuinness]

1. But if you can't count on yourself to be a friend to yourself...

who can you count on?

If you feel like a doormat, I'd say it's time to reappraise your friendship.

[rug]

2. Is CaliforniaPeggy acting up again?

[Nicole]

3. If she quits liking you just because you speak up for yourself

then she isn't really a friend. She's a user.

Be good to yourself.

[Skittles]

4. oh just kick her ass already

f***ing arrognat wench

[Evoman]

5. Either keep being a doormat, or don't be a doormat.

Not much advice to give here. If you think being a doormat is a good trade for being "liked" then keep being a doormat. Myself, I refuse, almost pathologically, to be a doormat. I couldn't stand it.

[MissMillie]

6. yep, that about sums it up

people either like you for who you are, or they like what you do for them. Which people do you want in your life?