Leaky faucet/tool question

[undeterred]

This tells you how exciting Friday night is.

OK, slight leak from both sides of compression type Kohler kitchen faucet. Took apart the hot faucet, took it to the store, and bought two. Replaced the hot one easily.

I simply cannot loosen the cold one with either of the adjustable wrenches- I assume it must be identical but it doesn't feel like there are two flat sides to grab onto... how do I get it loosened? Could the hot be different from the cold? Is there some magic trick I don't know?

[mopinko]

1. it turns the other way?

usually hot and cold are opposite. afaik, which is not that far, but...