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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 05:49 PM
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So, what do you do when you disagree A LOT with one of you DU friends in GD?
Do you ignore it? Do you try to work it out? Do you order a pizza and hunker down for the night? Stick pins into a voodoo doll? Weep into your pillow? Do you post a Lounge thread? Compose poetry? Open a beer? What?
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 05:53 PM
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1. Doesn't bother me. We all have our own opinions on things.
As long as my friend wasn't being an asshole to me, we would just agree to disagree.
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trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 05:54 PM
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2. I just flame 'em to a crisp and move on.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 06:22 PM
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6. You must be very skilled.
:rofl:
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 06:03 PM
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3. I don't care
Seriously. It's an internet message board, not a grand epic. In the abstract, there are those here who have more emotionally invested in GD or The Lounge than is healthy, and hopefully one day they'll have some introspection and realize that. But I don't hold any hopes for that, frankly.
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Random_Australian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 06:09 PM
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4. I argue with them about it, of course!
??? I mean, just about everyone holds at least one super-dumb freepish opinion. Perhaps time will change our minds. (Mine is about marijauna)

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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:12 PM
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29. I don't know why these smart people disagree with me.
I only hope they recognize their error.

:rofl:

:hi:
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 06:10 PM
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5. I try not to get too emotionally involved with any discussion here
If I disagree with anyone, I'm not afraid to say so and tell them why but I try to keep to the issues rather than drag anything personal into it. If the other person can't handle that, it's unfortunate but that's the same way I behave IRL.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 06:24 PM
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7. Hmmm. So far, no one has suggested drugs or alcohol.
:shrug:
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YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 07:16 PM
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8. Agree to disagree?
Friendship is more important than politics.
Duckie
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 07:20 PM
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9. I state my opinion
and then I grab an umbrella for protection when the shitstorm arrives. No; usually I will post one or two supporting comments if challeneged, and then I will agree to disagree. Only IRL will I tell somebody they're a moron.
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Elidor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 07:20 PM
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10. Always sleep on it
It takes a lot longer to build a friendship than it does to destroy it. You can always tell them off tomorrow, when you approach things with a fresh perspective.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 07:46 PM
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11. "Friends"?
:toast:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 12:17 AM
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18. Well, yes.
:toast:
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YDogg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 07:49 PM
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12. I don't really have any DU friends.
<shuffles away slowly>
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:05 PM
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23. Nice try.
:hug:

lol
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 07:57 PM
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13. Argue, scream, spit, call names (at first veiled, then openly), curse their idiocy
and usually wind up with something like "Well, you're the problem, Putz!"

I mean, I hate it when people are wrong enough to disagree with me. :grr:

Oddly, I don't have many friends in GD anymore...
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:11 PM
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28. I like it.
:smoke:
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:03 PM
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14. You don't disagreee with me, I disagree with you
so don't even think that you have some superior standing that makes you the wiser poster. x(



But I agree to disagree just cause I love you more than my orec air purifier. :hug:



:hi: :loveya:
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:08 PM
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26. Okay, okay. I'll be the second disagreer.
:rofl:

I love you more than my Vietnamese Garlic chile sauce.

:rofl:

:hi:

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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-26-07 12:12 AM
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33. I love you more than my Vietnamese Garlic chile sauce.
I should hope so :rofl:

garlic chile sauce :puke:

:hug: :loveya:

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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 09:39 PM
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15. I vote poetry i.e. dearest friend of mine, roses are red violets are blue...
yet still it befalls me to conclude,
that we disagree most sincerely
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 12:18 AM
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19. For some reason, this verse evokes the Dorothy Parker variation.
:evilgrin:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:46 PM
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16. I go to the city, ride deep into the fog, and shout:
"SFEXPAT IS A BIG POOPY PANTS"


Nah, just kidding. If a friend goes off in a direction too divergent from my thinking, I first try to understand why that person has a different perspective but if I can't find a common ground I try to walk away from the thread without inciting flames.

It's rare that it happens, though. Most of the people I seek out as friends here are those whose opinions are tolerable to me, if not similar.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 12:19 AM
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20. So, that was you.
:rofl:
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Forkboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-24-07 10:55 PM
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17. Think of the reasons you were friends in the first place...
...and remember how many more of them there are then reasons to be upset.

If that doesn't work stab them with something rusty. :D
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 12:20 AM
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21. Oh no!
LOL!

:hi:
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 10:45 PM
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22. what,
you ignoring me cause we disagree? :shrug:

I told ya that I love you more than my orec pure air machine, what more do you need. ;)

:hug: :loveya:

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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:06 PM
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24. I guess I'm a demanding so and so.
Edited on Sun Mar-25-07 11:07 PM by sfexpat2000
Hey, merh. It's so good to read you. You'll never know how good.

:woohoo:

:hug:

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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:08 PM
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25. it's always good to see you
you are the bestest :pals: :hug:

:loveya:

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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:10 PM
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27. What are you up to?
lol

:pals:

:hug:

:loveya:
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:13 PM
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30. just lurking and posting
should be going to bed, tomorrow's a monday and things to do - stresses to deal with.

sorry things are so hectic for you, gotcha in my prayers always :pals:

:hug: :loveya:

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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:15 PM
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31. Well, the Kid is getting big now. If people mess with me
now I can let the dog out. No worries.

Be well, merh. I'll see you in July.

:toast:
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merh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-25-07 11:18 PM
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32. hopefully by July
i'll have a house to invite you to visit

fingers crossed and all of that :toast:

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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Mar-26-07 12:28 AM
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34. Taunt them like a french castle guard.
If they do not agree with me, I shall taunt them again.

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