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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:33 PM
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Poll question: how much of your personal life do you withhold on DU?
Edited on Fri Jun-15-07 02:48 PM by datasuspect
being that online communication is sometimes frought with peril, how much of personal life do you allow to keep to yourself on DU or in your online life in general?











edited because i fear BNL's naked fury.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:36 PM
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1. You first.
Edited on Fri Jun-15-07 02:48 PM by Gormy Cuss
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edited to reply to your question: I reveal as little as possible that is individually identifiable because I don't want to attract stalkers with nothing better to do.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:38 PM
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2. i tend to hold my cards fairly close
i remember hearing about some guy who got fired because some freepers found out where he worked (a radio station) and did a phone/email/letter campaign against him.

of course, the federal government, who logs everything we all type here and everywhere else, know who i am, the average person hopefully can't get that info.
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some guy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:45 PM
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35. I did not
get fired. It was some *other* guy. :D

" i remember hearing about some guy who got fired... "


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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:41 PM
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3. open book.
:P
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:46 PM
Response to Reply #3
6. Which chapter are we on today?
Are we on the same page?
:P
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:47 PM
Response to Reply #6
7. who knows.
just flip through.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:49 PM
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Your life is a flip-book?
Who knew?

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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:44 PM
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4. I'm pretty open about it.
I trust the people in the Lounge. I don't give out my Social Security number or anything, but this place is one of the few where I feel like I can trust people. :grouphug:
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:45 PM
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5. Well what are you asking?
In the title you ask how much of your personal life do you withhold...

In the body you as how much of your personal life do you allow to bleed through.

So the poll answers are for which question?

:shrug:
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:47 PM
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8. the lower you go, the more you reveal.
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:51 PM
Response to Reply #8
15. Well in that case...
not that much.

:P

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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:52 PM
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16. those were instructions my dear
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:08 PM
Response to Reply #16
28. Hehehe
:evilgrin:
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:48 PM
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9. Well, I consider pics
of what we look and where we live and our cat private, but I share these, along with some little other stuff. But that's it.

You'll never hear from me what my aunt said/did/not said/not did yesterday, but then, I don't either. And my neighbors are boring. It's a holiday house, so we see them four times a year, and it's a nice older couple. ;)

But here's my car, if you're interested:

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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:49 PM
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11. hee hee!
nice hummer there!
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:58 PM
Response to Reply #11
17. It comes with sweet lil' hearts, too.
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:49 PM
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10. All that would allow some Jesus-lovin' Super Christian fuckwipe from killing me
or harassing me or outing me or otherwise making my life a living hell, "in the name of the God of love".

I don't trust freepers, so I don't post my picture, location, address, job, or anything else that a Jesus-loving fundy asswipe could use to figure out who I am.
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:49 PM
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12. chicken-shit
:P
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 03:01 PM
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21. It's not being chicken shit, it's being prudent - "freedom loving, America-loving,
Jesus-loving" people love nothing more than harassing or murdering people who differ from them.

:P:P:P:P:P

Besides, since I'm a liberal, I like to think of it as French-Surrender-Monkey-Let-the-Terrorists-Win-Shit, not chicken shit.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:50 PM
Response to Reply #10
13. i did a google search on your username
and it returned many items that deal with death stars, illuminati, new world order, puppy mills, and price gouging.
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:51 PM
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14. do an image search
it shows him with all you can eat breadsticks at Olive Garden :rofl:
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:59 PM
Response to Reply #14
19. Actually, it offers a pic of me writing on the fountain in Washington Square
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 03:01 PM
Response to Reply #19
20. yeah but there is an Olive Garden in the background
and that is CLEARLY a breadstick in your pocket
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 03:04 PM
Response to Reply #20
22. That's not an Olive Garden, you jackass. It's a cracker barrel.
And it's not a breadstick, it's a "darkie repellent" baton.

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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 02:58 PM
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18. I did other increment.. hmm 5%
Because I can't tell everything! Then what would keep me up all night battling in my head?

:hi:
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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 03:06 PM
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23. I don't hide anything.

I am what you see right here on DU.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 03:10 PM
Response to Reply #23
25. i'm very WYSIWYG
but i don't look at it as concealment. more like discretion.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 03:10 PM
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24. I'm pretty open, my dear datasuspect....
I don't tell my address or SSN# or stuff like that...

But if you look at my profile, you will see where I live...

And god knows I've posted a lot of pics of me and my family!

I suppose anyone who really wanted to could find me.......but I'm not making it easy for them!

I'd say I withhold about 5%..... :shrug:

:hi:
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Adsos Letter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 03:45 PM
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26. ...I withhold 50%...
...and the other half is all lies...

:D
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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:06 PM
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27. People i am really close to I tell everything
Some know me pretty well here.
I call them friends
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StarryNite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:08 PM
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29. I am way to private to participate
in this poll.
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:21 PM
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30. Most of it now.
Edited on Fri Jun-15-07 04:25 PM by SarahBelle
I'm an open person about major events or my opinions in regard to assorted topics, but I rarely discuss specific things in my life especially in terms of interpersonal real life relationships or my children. I have very minimal online relationships these days and most of those I even occasionally PM are people I've actually met. I used to be more open and attracted some seriously weird people that I would not want to attract.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:23 PM
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31. I hide my identity
from the mafia

:yoiks:

although i have no idea why :crazy:



:rofl:75% open on here


25% was my answer


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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:25 PM
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32. I am pretty open and honest
but there are some things I would never reveal on here.
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:32 PM
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33. I only post on the progress of my venereal disease.
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:50 PM
Response to Reply #33
37. weren't you giving a reception for that somewhere?
i never got my invite!


please tell us the minute by minute details of your pathogens' progress!
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:53 PM
Response to Reply #37
38. Minute is not a word I use in connection with my venereal disease.
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some guy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:43 PM
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34. 90 - 95 %
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anarch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 04:46 PM
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36. negative 33%
I reveal sensitive, personally identifiable information about myself, and others.
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 05:20 PM
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39. Probably 95% but...
I'm not very interesting, so you aren't missing much!
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 05:34 PM
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40. Somewhere between 50-75%, really, but I clicked 50%.
Edited on Fri Jun-15-07 05:35 PM by BlueIris
Contrary to popular belief, there's a lot I won't go into here. Mostly it's about boundaries and respecting the privacy of my friends/family. But also--I don't know. Some of the challenges I'm dealing with (as well as some of the things I've been blessed to have in life) aren't discussed with much enthusiasm on this site. I really wouldn't pick this place to look for support for those challenges, nor would I want to "celebrate" my successes WRT certain things on DU. So there's a whole half of me you'll never know about--bwah ha ha ha ha.

Ha.

:P
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 05:42 PM
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41. All of my personal problems.
My life is far from perfect. But I don't want to bring my problems here.
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 07:21 PM
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42. Very little....
I certainly do not air any dirty laundry here, especially having seen how that can come back to bite people in the ass when they least want it. And I have never (and never will) posted a photo either of myself or the triplets...no matter how damn cute they are.
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Elidor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 07:26 PM
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43. Not that much
A little here and there. Mostly I hold back.
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 07:26 PM
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44. 98%
Not that I don't trust DUers, but there are too many yahoos out there.
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 07:41 PM
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45. sometimes "others" put your personal information on line for you,
without YOU having a choice, like what has happened to me twice in the last few weeks.
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tinfoil tiaras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 08:11 PM
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46. I used to put it all out there
--in my 'emo' middle school years, but now i guess i know better than to...
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jpgray Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 08:13 PM
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47. 75%. There are a few close friends here who know more than that, however
I remember being told I must be an aging, pony-tailed hippie in some argument about the dangers of globalization. I like that. :D
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Nicole Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 09:37 PM
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48. Almost 100%
I don't post much personal info at all.
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jane_pippin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 09:41 PM
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49. Almost all of it. However, I will say
that I'm in frickin love right now, and I say that because I'm in the annoying (to others) "I want to tell everyone about how in love with this person I am" stage.

So now you know that.

Also, I'm hardly around enough to really talk about anything anyway.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 09:43 PM
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50. Very few people know, and they're not saying.
Redstone
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fortyfeetunder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 10:43 PM
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51. I am a graduate from the Nunya Dam Business School
So if anyone is at all interested, then maybe they should take a few courses there....
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-15-07 11:10 PM
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52. I withhold most of what's going on in my life,
I'd say 90% + or more. I've not been that forthcoming about details of my personal history even in real life until I get to know someone well.
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