|
It was outside, beautiful setting. It was really a special and emotive event for me. She is 25, and all of her long-time friends were there, young adults who we have watched grow from very early childhood, for the most part.
It was good to see these young people and realize that they have become our future, and that it is a good thing.
It was good to feel my own age (51) and realize that I was passing into a new phase of life, and that it is ok.
And almost all of our friends who helped with the wedding are part of a large group, of which we are a part, who have helped each other often over the years with weddings, baby showers, funerals, birthday celebrations, etc.; there for each other for good times and sad times. And for us, today, from early morning to late, late evening they worked tremendously hard to make the day a success.
It was good to dance with my wife of 30 years, today.
It was good to see my cousins, who I see too rarely, but who have been close all of our lives.
And for the first time ever in my life my dad, who is in his 70's, put his arm around my shoulder and gave me affirmation that he was glad I was his son. There is a lot of history behind that, and it isn't of any import to The Lounge, but it was absolutely unexpected and added another layer of specialness to the day.
We served beer, wine, and champagne, and nobody got plowed or hammered, just a celebration of a joining of families.
It was a good day...
:D
|