Thank you for all your support. Please pray for our parish priest. She is not that open about her own identity in the pulpit, but she does speak out about how we should support homosexual rights in our church. Her argument, though, was passed more on the idea that Episcopalians should not be controlled by overseas officials who do not know our dioceses. The only trouble I see with that argument is that it can all to often be stood on its head by anti-gay Anglicans in Africa. Some of the African hierarchy has said that we are imposing "Western Values" on Africans by introducing gay rights. This is a nice trick because it turns the gay rights activists into imperialists imposing white cultural decadence on pure, heterosexual black Africans. Unfortunately, homosexual black Africans are suffering the most in this equation because their history is being silenced. Even worse, is that there are laws against homosexuality in Nigeria and other neighboring countries.
There has always been homosexuality and transgenderism in Africa. The most important evidence is in a book called "Boy Wives, Female Husbands"
http://www.amazon.com/Boy-Wives-Female-Husbands-Studies-African-Homosexualities/dp/031221216XIt is a big myth to think that the Greeks invented homosexuality. Audre Lorde, the African-American feminist, entitled her autobiography "Zami: Another Spelling of My Name," because it is an African name for women who prefer the company of other women. "Traditional marriage" in many African cultures has always included polygamy and woman to woman marriage.
It seems to me that what has been imported to African countries is homophobia and not homosexuality. Since traditional religions blessed same-sex marriage, it seemed to some homophobic missionaries a terrible "barbarism." A certain kind of colonial, nineteenth century image off the Victorian, heterosexual, male lead family is still pretending to be "the ideal Christian family." Unfortunately, this is locks out a lot of other healthy sexual expressions. Jesus did NOT endorse the nuclear family or any set family structure. Instead, we are called as a church to be a large family, to be brother and sisters in Christ. Since we are called to love our neighbor as ourselves whether male, female, Gentile, Jew, free, slave. Yes, those are Paul's words, but they capture the Spirit of Christ's teachings. Jesus surprised the crowds when he said that a Samaritan could, through his compassion, be a better neighbor than the Priest who shirks his duties. Also, he said there would be eunuchs for the kingdom of God.
Yes, we do need to help God's reign along here. I need to do more research on this subject. Please pray that we find a way as a church to truly love all our neighbors.
Saints Perpetua and Felicitas of Carthage were martyred in 203 for being Christians. There is a probability that they were lovers. Perpetua writes that Felicitas was a great comfort to her in prison and before they were exposed to the wild beasts, they embraced and kissed.