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freethought Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-20-08 02:15 PM
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What does it mean when a relationship is co-dependent?
I hear this term getting batted around left and right but have never understood what it means.
Can someone please give the naive a little info please?
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-20-08 02:17 PM
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1. It means each partner is dependent on the other to
get some type of reinforcement.

Example: The co-dependent wife of an alcoholic husband 'needs' to stay with him out of a sense that he cannot manage on his own and if something happened she would feel guilty.

Stuff like that.
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freethought Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-20-08 02:22 PM
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2. Aaah, I see!
Given in the context I have heard the term so many times it makes perfect sense now!!

Thank You Much!!
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-20-08 02:23 PM
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3. My pleasure.
And, obviously, there are varying degrees of co-dependency.
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