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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 04:59 PM
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What Kind Of Person Would Make You Fall Totally In Love With Them?
:shrug: :hi:
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:00 PM
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1. a good one
:shrug:
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Amerigo Vespucci Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:13 PM
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64. There ya go.
That's basically all it takes. That's the foundation that the house is built upon.

:toast:
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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:07 PM
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2. Oh, I already met them.
Won't ever be with them, it's not possible, but yep.
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:10 PM
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28. She is a lucky woman...
I hate the bitch already :P
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:08 PM
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3. Someone who's nice and kind and generous and smart.
Already met him. He doesn't love me back. Bummer.
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:09 PM
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5. its not the 'ugly' one is it?
:shrug: :hi: :hug:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:09 PM
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4. I can't possibly imagine.
O8)
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:10 PM
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6. so how was Portland?
:shrug: :hi:
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:11 PM
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8. Awesome.
I ate a ton of food and did some shopping and got to spend time with a bunch of friends I don't see nearly often enough.

If gas stays cheap I'll probably drive up again in the spring.
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:17 PM
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9. i am downtown working
if you buy lunch??

:rofl: :rofl:

hell, if i have my inheritance by then i can buy !!!

:hi:
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:11 PM
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7. Someone who would wantonly cheat on me.
I've always wanted diseases from a person deemed "special".

At least they'd get to have suffered and die before I did.
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:18 PM
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10. A person who had certain qualities about them that cause me to fall in love.
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:22 PM
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13. That sucks
:hi:
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:25 PM
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14. Are you just reacting to EVERYTHING I post now that it sucks?
:grr:
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:19 PM
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11. Already found him
but you can't make someone love you...
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:35 PM
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22. That's what Bonnie Raitt says, too.
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:56 PM
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31. Yep.
I can't even listen to that song anymore. It shouldn't be this hard.
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:06 PM
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63. Awww, well ... Crap.
Just ... Crap.

:hug:
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:49 PM
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45. yeah, no shit
sucks, doesn't it?
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:56 PM
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48. It does.
I don't let people get close. I should've known better.

:(
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:58 PM
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50. damn
I wonder if that means that I should know better. Actually, I do know better, but I'm a lot dumber than I know sometimes.
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:01 PM
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54. Yeah, but
if you don't take a chance, you could miss out. I was married 18 years to someone who decided he'd rather be with someone else. I waited 4 years before I dared care. I don't regret it, really I don't. I just wish it had turned out differently.

Don't rush into things, but don't put the walls up too high...
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:21 PM
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57. thanks
I don't have any fucking idea what to do. I especially don't know what to do about how to actually talk to women and seem like a normal human being. I don't even know how I'm supposed to show that I'm interested. I've had two girlfriends in the last 7 or 8 years, and the last one basically just said "I'm your girlfriend now" after I'd split up with the one before her. That girl had had a crush on me for years, so there wasn't a lot of wooing that had to be done. In both cases, I'd already known these people for months, if not years. I have no fucking idea about what's expected of me. I don't know how to read signals. I just need someone to tell me what the hell is going on. Then I'll know if I should even be worried about getting my heart broken.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 05:21 PM
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12. Someone who is kind
caring, loving, smart, funny, and who is attracted to me and visa versa.

I've met her three times in my life...

not reciprocated the first time

too far away the second time

and not sure yet about the third, but it isn't looking very promising right now.

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northernlights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:10 PM
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15. kind, smart, funny, dog-loving, totally in love with me...
reasonably fit, not too ugly, and...er...very, very wealthy.
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:11 PM
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16. The kind that's lying on the bed behind me
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KamaAina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:14 PM
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17. A female
who wasn't a sick-making repuke (sorry, Sarah).
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:15 PM
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18. Smart, funny, caring, curious,...
gentle but with a backbone, interesting and unpredictable, confident without arrogance...*sigh* I found ONE person like that...and that one person is pretty much unavailable as things stand...x(
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:18 PM
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19. You just wrote about Tony Romo
:woohoo: :hi:
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:25 PM
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20. I said SMART Parche....
DQ'd on the first challenge!
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madinmaryland Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:40 PM
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25. BWAHAHAHAHA!
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:48 PM
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60. dude you are like the mole in Turtlensue's whack-a-mole game!
:rofl:
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:47 PM
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59. there's a smart Parche?
:evilgrin:
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:29 PM
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21. I have a weakness for dreamy academic types, especially ones that are
Edited on Wed Dec-03-08 07:29 PM by oktoberain
witty, funny, brilliant, creatively talented, and who think that I am too. :)
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:50 PM
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46. what am I then? chopped liver?
You should have just written "harmonicon".
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Lyric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:53 PM
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47. Harmonicon, then!
:rofl:

:loveya:
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:57 PM
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49. sweet!
:) Yay! Somebody likes me!!
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:37 PM
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23. Someone who is smart and funny (sense of humor is priority #1)
he would share some of my interests and also be willing to give new things a try (and introduce me to some as well), he would have to be patient and caring and able to put up with my bullshit (and believe me, there is plenty of that), he would need to make me laugh at least 10 times a day and feel like shit if he makes me cry, he would always be honest with me (even when it hurts) and care about what I have to say. On the superficial side, big hands and no horns or mullets :)
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:39 PM
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24. No horns or mullets?
Damn--that eliminates DuStrange.....:rofl:
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:42 PM
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27. Diet coke all over my monitor!
:spray:
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CreekDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:49 PM
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61. Seconded!
:rofl: :hide:
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PaddyBlueEyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:55 PM
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62. Hes a lucky guy (nt)
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:29 PM
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67. Ya think so?
if I see him I'll be sure to tell him you said that
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PaddyBlueEyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:38 PM
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71. He knows all to well how lucky he is
....
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 07:40 PM
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26. Someone with bad taste in boyfriends, I suspect
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:48 PM
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29. Female
Young.
But of Legal age.
Gorgeous.
Mute.
Faithful.
Independently wealthy.
Generous with her money.
Has all her (own) teeth.
Parents dead or missing.
No kids.
Owns or buys me another bookstore.
Drives a red Ferarri, lets me drive the black one.
Jello wrestles with her twin sister.
Cooks for me.
Does my laundry.
A total freak in the sack.
Knows when to leave.
leaves.

Hey, I've tried the nice guy crap, now it's the shallow bad boy all the way.

RL
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:55 PM
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30. Well, there's that cute girl who sits in front of me in class...
wait, did you say love or lust? :P

Seriously though, quirky/interesting is my main criteria. Beyond that it's just the little details of personal compatability.
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:56 PM
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32. oh who the hell knows these days?
:banghead:
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:56 PM
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33. I'll know when I find her.
Until then, I have no friggen idea.
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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:58 PM
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34. The kind of person that I have been with for the last 15 years
Funny, smart, good looking, independent thinking. My best friend!!

Just sayin...
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 08:58 PM
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35. Anybody who doesn't actually run away screaming when he first meets me.
:(
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:00 PM
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36. A hypnotist, witch, or just plain old regular bastard.
Anyone that would MAKE me love them is human garbage.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:05 PM
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37. I already found him, my dear Parche!
Super smart
Good looking, inside and out
Musical
Liberal
Great companion
Likes going places with me
Loves kids
Sense of humor
Great laugh
Good jokes

43 years, and it's still great...



:-)
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:08 PM
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38. Combo of seemingly tough exterior contrasted with quiet sensitive
artistic geekiness.



And totally responsible and supremely respectful of me.

*sigh*
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Saboburns Donating Member (690 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:17 PM
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39. How bout this
Someone who can love me just the way I am.

Forever.
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buckettgirl Donating Member (608 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:19 PM
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40. hehe
someone taller than me who treated me with respect and courtesy and at least attempted to enjoy the same things I did.
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pink-o Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:23 PM
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41. A guy who'll really, truly unequivocally
Respect me and give me a lot of space!

Also, gotta have someone who cares about what he eats and enjoys execise.

And of COURSE no right-wingnuts, crazy Christo-fascists, or incurious types need ever apply!
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PaddyBlueEyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:24 PM
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42. I met her
its complicated.....
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:23 PM
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65. Like physics complicated?
everything that is worth it is complicated IMHO :hi:
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PaddyBlueEyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:46 PM
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73. Like Life, Time and Distance complicated
But its worth it.....:D
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:49 PM
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75. So like physics complicated then...
:P
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PaddyBlueEyes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:50 PM
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76. I never took physics
sorority girl...Unless it was calculating, artillery strikes.
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:42 PM
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43. There isn't anybody...
...who'll love me for myself, so :shrug:

:cry:
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:47 PM
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44. oh, where do I start...
red hair
pale skin
smokey eyes that hypnotize me
love of old Doctor Who
care for the environment
loves the smell of smoke on my clothes
plays piano
has great taste in cider
sweet as all get out
smart as hell
the most beautiful english accent, or voice, you've ever heard
polite
shy
a tender touch
lives in my town

yeah, a girl like that could make me totally fall totally in love with them.
*sigh* :)
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Critters2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 09:58 PM
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51. Anyone who shows even the slightest interest in me.
Therein lies the problem.
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Ikonoklast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:00 PM
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52. It Was For My Own Good


At least that's what she said.






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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:01 PM
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53. Someone I can shoot the shit with, without retribution...
And is willing to share my kinks with me.
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NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:02 PM
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55. We'd be friends first ...
... hang with the same crowd - so we'd know each other - know we can make each other laugh.

And then he'd come home with me - and wind up staying the night.

Then he'd come back over a week later and say, with conviction and finality: "We belong together."

And we did, and he did, and we do.

Sixteen years later, and I totally fall in love with him again every morning, and count my blessings as I go to sleep each night.

Hang in there, people - it happens - and it happens when you least expect it.
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:06 PM
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56. The living incarnation of my dreams and values. nt
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 10:25 PM
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58. I think Sharon Olds is already Married...
:hide:

RL
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:36 PM
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70. She's divorced, actually. (Besides, I don't actually swing that way.)
Edited on Wed Dec-03-08 11:36 PM by BlueIris
:-)

But since you brought it up, the living incarnation of my dreams and values is already married. Le sigh.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:27 PM
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66. That kind of person does not exist.
I know, I've looked.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:31 PM
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68. I don't know. I haven't met him yet.
:shrug:
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LadyoftheRabbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:31 PM
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69. The kind I get to kiss on New Year's Eve this year
:blush:
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:44 PM
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72. you too?
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-03-08 11:48 PM
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74. I had him. and I lost him. and I think about him every second.
and I doubt there is anyone who can ever replace what it was that he was to me.
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