What Kind Of Person Would Make You Fall Totally In Love With Them?

[Parche]

:shrug: :hi:

[Shell Beau]

1. a good one

:shrug:

[Amerigo Vespucci]

64. There ya go.

That's basically all it takes. That's the foundation that the house is built upon.

:toast:

[billyskank]

2. Oh, I already met them.

Won't ever be with them, it's not possible, but yep.

[mcctatas]

28. She is a lucky woman...

I hate the bitch already :P

[redqueen]

3. Someone who's nice and kind and generous and smart.

Already met him. He doesn't love me back. Bummer.

[Parche]

5. its not the 'ugly' one is it?

:shrug: :hi: :hug:

[LeftyMom]

4. I can't possibly imagine.

O8)

[Parche]

6. so how was Portland?

:shrug: :hi:

[LeftyMom]

8. Awesome.

I ate a ton of food and did some shopping and got to spend time with a bunch of friends I don't see nearly often enough.

If gas stays cheap I'll probably drive up again in the spring.

[Parche]

9. i am downtown working

if you buy lunch??

:rofl: :rofl:

hell, if i have my inheritance by then i can buy !!!

:hi:

[Deja Q]

7. Someone who would wantonly cheat on me.

I've always wanted diseases from a person deemed "special".

At least they'd get to have suffered and die before I did.

[Danger Mouse]

10. A person who had certain qualities about them that cause me to fall in love.

[Parche]

13. That sucks

:hi:

[Danger Mouse]

14. Are you just reacting to EVERYTHING I post now that it sucks?

:grr:

[lizziegrace]

11. Already found him

but you can't make someone love you...

[Arugula Latte]

22. That's what Bonnie Raitt says, too.

:(

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlrXIvMmG3s

[lizziegrace]

31. Yep.

I can't even listen to that song anymore. It shouldn't be this hard.

[Arugula Latte]

63. Awww, well ... Crap.

Just ... Crap.

:hug:

[harmonicon]

45. yeah, no shit

sucks, doesn't it?

[lizziegrace]

48. It does.

I don't let people get close. I should've known better.

:(

[harmonicon]

50. damn

I wonder if that means that I should know better. Actually, I do know better, but I'm a lot dumber than I know sometimes.

[lizziegrace]

54. Yeah, but

if you don't take a chance, you could miss out. I was married 18 years to someone who decided he'd rather be with someone else. I waited 4 years before I dared care. I don't regret it, really I don't. I just wish it had turned out differently.

Don't rush into things, but don't put the walls up too high...

[harmonicon]

57. thanks

I don't have any fucking idea what to do. I especially don't know what to do about how to actually talk to women and seem like a normal human being. I don't even know how I'm supposed to show that I'm interested. I've had two girlfriends in the last 7 or 8 years, and the last one basically just said "I'm your girlfriend now" after I'd split up with the one before her. That girl had had a crush on me for years, so there wasn't a lot of wooing that had to be done. In both cases, I'd already known these people for months, if not years. I have no fucking idea about what's expected of me. I don't know how to read signals. I just need someone to tell me what the hell is going on. Then I'll know if I should even be worried about getting my heart broken.

[SPKrazy]

12. Someone who is kind

caring, loving, smart, funny, and who is attracted to me and visa versa.

I've met her three times in my life...

not reciprocated the first time

too far away the second time

and not sure yet about the third, but it isn't looking very promising right now.

[northernlights]

15. kind, smart, funny, dog-loving, totally in love with me...

reasonably fit, not too ugly, and...er...very, very wealthy.

[skygazer]

16. The kind that's lying on the bed behind me

[KamaAina]

17. A female

who wasn't a sick-making repuke (sorry, Sarah).

[TZ]

18. Smart, funny, caring, curious,...

gentle but with a backbone, interesting and unpredictable, confident without arrogance...*sigh* I found ONE person like that...and that one person is pretty much unavailable as things stand...x(

[Parche]

19. You just wrote about Tony Romo

:woohoo: :hi:

[TZ]

20. I said SMART Parche....

DQ'd on the first challenge!

[madinmaryland]

25. BWAHAHAHAHA!

[CreekDog]

60. dude you are like the mole in Turtlensue's whack-a-mole game!

:rofl:

[CreekDog]

59. there's a smart Parche?

:evilgrin:

[Lyric]

21. I have a weakness for dreamy academic types, especially ones that are

witty, funny, brilliant, creatively talented, and who think that I am too. :)

[harmonicon]

46. what am I then? chopped liver?

You should have just written "harmonicon".

[Lyric]

47. Harmonicon, then!

:rofl:

:loveya:

[harmonicon]

49. sweet!

:) Yay! Somebody likes me!!

[mcctatas]

23. Someone who is smart and funny (sense of humor is priority #1)

he would share some of my interests and also be willing to give new things a try (and introduce me to some as well), he would have to be patient and caring and able to put up with my bullshit (and believe me, there is plenty of that), he would need to make me laugh at least 10 times a day and feel like shit if he makes me cry, he would always be honest with me (even when it hurts) and care about what I have to say. On the superficial side, big hands and no horns or mullets :)

[TZ]

24. No horns or mullets?

Damn--that eliminates DuStrange.....:rofl:

[mcctatas]

27. Diet coke all over my monitor!

:spray:

[CreekDog]

61. Seconded!

:rofl: :hide:

[PaddyBlueEyes]

62. Hes a lucky guy (nt)

[mcctatas]

67. Ya think so?

if I see him I'll be sure to tell him you said that

[PaddyBlueEyes]

71. He knows all to well how lucky he is

....

[Bucky]

26. Someone with bad taste in boyfriends, I suspect

[RetroLounge]

29. Female

Young.
But of Legal age.
Gorgeous.
Mute.
Faithful.
Independently wealthy.
Generous with her money.
Has all her (own) teeth.
Parents dead or missing.
No kids.
Owns or buys me another bookstore.
Drives a red Ferarri, lets me drive the black one.
Jello wrestles with her twin sister.
Cooks for me.
Does my laundry.
A total freak in the sack.
Knows when to leave.
leaves.

Hey, I've tried the nice guy crap, now it's the shallow bad boy all the way.

RL

[DarkTirade]

30. Well, there's that cute girl who sits in front of me in class...

wait, did you say love or lust? :P

Seriously though, quirky/interesting is my main criteria. Beyond that it's just the little details of personal compatability.

[malta blue]

32. oh who the hell knows these days?

:banghead:

[Lucian]

33. I'll know when I find her.

Until then, I have no friggen idea.

[MadMaddie]

34. The kind of person that I have been with for the last 15 years

Funny, smart, good looking, independent thinking. My best friend!!

Just sayin...

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

35. Anybody who doesn't actually run away screaming when he first meets me.

:(

[Rabrrrrrr]

36. A hypnotist, witch, or just plain old regular bastard.

Anyone that would MAKE me love them is human garbage.

[CaliforniaPeggy]

37. I already found him, my dear Parche!

Super smart
Good looking, inside and out
Musical
Liberal
Great companion
Likes going places with me
Loves kids
Sense of humor
Great laugh
Good jokes

43 years, and it's still great...



:-)

[supernova]

38. Combo of seemingly tough exterior contrasted with quiet sensitive

artistic geekiness.



And totally responsible and supremely respectful of me.

*sigh*

[Saboburns]

39. How bout this

Someone who can love me just the way I am.

Forever.

[buckettgirl]

40. hehe

someone taller than me who treated me with respect and courtesy and at least attempted to enjoy the same things I did.

[pink-o]

41. A guy who'll really, truly unequivocally

Respect me and give me a lot of space!

Also, gotta have someone who cares about what he eats and enjoys execise.

And of COURSE no right-wingnuts, crazy Christo-fascists, or incurious types need ever apply!

[PaddyBlueEyes]

42. I met her

its complicated.....

[mcctatas]

65. Like physics complicated?

everything that is worth it is complicated IMHO :hi:

[PaddyBlueEyes]

73. Like Life, Time and Distance complicated

But its worth it.....:D

[mcctatas]

75. So like physics complicated then...

:P

[PaddyBlueEyes]

76. I never took physics

sorority girl...Unless it was calculating, artillery strikes.

[From The Ashes]

43. There isn't anybody...

...who'll love me for myself, so :shrug:

:cry:

[harmonicon]

44. oh, where do I start...

red hair
pale skin
smokey eyes that hypnotize me
love of old Doctor Who
care for the environment
loves the smell of smoke on my clothes
plays piano
has great taste in cider
sweet as all get out
smart as hell
the most beautiful english accent, or voice, you've ever heard
polite
shy
a tender touch
lives in my town

yeah, a girl like that could make me totally fall totally in love with them.
*sigh* :)

[Critters2]

51. Anyone who shows even the slightest interest in me.

Therein lies the problem.

[Ikonoklast]

52. It Was For My Own Good

At least that's what she said.

[MrScorpio]

53. Someone I can shoot the shit with, without retribution...

And is willing to share my kinks with me.

[NanceGreggs]

55. We'd be friends first ...

... hang with the same crowd - so we'd know each other - know we can make each other laugh.

And then he'd come home with me - and wind up staying the night.

Then he'd come back over a week later and say, with conviction and finality: "We belong together."

And we did, and he did, and we do.

Sixteen years later, and I totally fall in love with him again every morning, and count my blessings as I go to sleep each night.

Hang in there, people - it happens - and it happens when you least expect it.

[BlueIris]

56. The living incarnation of my dreams and values. nt

[RetroLounge]

58. I think Sharon Olds is already Married...

:hide:

RL

[BlueIris]

70. She's divorced, actually. (Besides, I don't actually swing that way.)

:-)

But since you brought it up, the living incarnation of my dreams and values is already married. Le sigh.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

66. That kind of person does not exist.

I know, I've looked.

[Kat45]

68. I don't know. I haven't met him yet.

:shrug:

[LadyoftheRabbits]

69. The kind I get to kiss on New Year's Eve this year

:blush:

[harmonicon]

72. you too?

[ScreamingMeemie]

74. I had him. and I lost him. and I think about him every second.

and I doubt there is anyone who can ever replace what it was that he was to me.