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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:26 AM
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Have you ever felt that 99% of the people you know just don't
understand you?

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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:28 AM
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1. 100% - even people who know me don't understand me.
:D
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:31 AM
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2. I hear ya.
I only say 99% because there is one person in my life who really DOES understand me.

Other than that......:shrug:

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coyotespaw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:55 AM
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9. So even you don't understand you?
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:57 AM
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11. Oh hells no.
But I'm working on it. :)

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RandomThoughts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:33 AM
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3. yup, I just keep moving forward with a laugh.
Edited on Sat Dec-06-08 06:33 AM by RandomThoughts
Well I figure if they don't get it, I could be wrong, so I don't worry about it.

Plus 99% of what a person thinks about another person, is usually created in their own mind.

Take conversation, built on thoughts of the moment, without knowing the backdrop of why the person is thinking it, put it through an interpretation of who you think the person is, what you think they are thinking, and why.

Add your own beliefs and thoughts, mixed with protective emotions or thoughts.

And

we only hear 10% of what someone else says.

Luckily we all think for ourselves, and do not depend on what others say, or the world would be a very complicated place.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:44 AM
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4. So true.
So very true
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Breeze54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:45 AM
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5. No... 100%; since I was a little kid.
:grr:
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:48 AM
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6. I was at 100% until a few years ago
I think it's the scourge of those among us who actually try to think about things.

And who also think outside the box.

It's how I've always been.

Unfortunately, most of the people I know DON'T think that way.



x(

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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:49 AM
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7. Number of people who actually understand me?
Maybe three. Excepting my mum and brother.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:54 AM
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8. You're lucky, billy.
The other person in my life who really understood me was me mum, and she passed away in February.

But at least there is still one who does.


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billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:57 AM
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10. I guess I am.
:hug:
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 06:58 AM
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12. Yes, you are.
:hug: back atcha.

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BreweryYardRat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 07:13 AM
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13. Ooh yeah.
One of the main reasons I want to get the hell out of here.
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machI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 07:15 AM
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14. That is understandable, I am still searching for myself
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RFKHumphreyObama Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-06-08 07:22 AM
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15. Oh yes, definitely
Edited on Sat Dec-06-08 07:23 AM by socialdemocrat1981
All the time
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