For gay DU guys and gals. How do you like your men/women?

[Lil Missy]

I did not make this a poll, on purpose. It may be quite different for men and women, age differences, and, whatever...

Describe for yourself, whatever you like.

For me, I like, "whatever", but I have toys for that. I am not interested in one-nighters. I am interested in someone for keeps.

This is sort of a copycat thread, but also serious too. I'd also like to hear some serious responses to such questions from gays too.

[Lil Missy]

1. Nothing?

NOTHING?

[blondeatlast]

2. Edit: I need to read more carefully! But a kickety anyhoo. nt

[Lil Missy]

5. What did you say?

I won't tell anyone, I promise. :)

[blondeatlast]

13. Didn't see the "gay" in the SL and spouted off about my own sad situation right now.

Sorry! :hi:

[Lil Missy]

14. Go ahead, Spout! This thread topic does not discriminate.

Spill it, sistah!

[DarkTirade]

3. Right now I like the cute one in my class...

:P

[Lil Missy]

4. Oh now, I thought we had an exclusive arrangement!

You scamp!

;-)

[bigwillq]

6. The need to act like a dude.

Masculine, mature...Be a MAN!

Don't really have a specific body type but they should be in somewhat good shape; I am not a huge muscle head but in shape and athletic is nice. Somewhat taller than me.

They have to have a great smile and laugh, and be able to make me laugh. Personality and a sense of humor is big for me.

They need to have a job (any job) and be responsible.

I do like my guys dark (black of any kind, latino, etc..)

That's really about it.

[Lil Missy]

8. So, I take it that you look for qualities that could result in a permanent relationship?

But perhaps with a few "quickies" on the side? Correct me if I am wrong.

I'm sort of in that place with "opportunities" now. I'm just so turned off by one-nighters.

:(

[bigwillq]

11. Pretty much sums it up.

I like the idea of a relationship; and have even been in a few (I have been with my man on and off for seven years now) but I also get bored very easily and like the excitement and freshness of a "quickie". Judge if you must but that's where I am at this stage in my life.

[Lil Missy]

12. I am not going to judge.

I think a lot of that is a difference between women and men.

I do have "opportunities" available to me. I'm just not in any rush.

And frankly, I'd rather watch a movie than go for a one-nighter. Or a "quickie".

And I make no apologies. I am getting old.

Okay!

[motely36]

16. damn...

x(


:hi: :P :hug:

[Rising Phoenix]

7. being able to be me.....

good and bad


and vice versa.....if you have to act in any since of the word.....then its not for me. That applies to men and women.

[Deja Q]

9. I'm bi, but anyone who wants to build a life together and has a complementing personality...

I just don't dig one night stands. They're more an emotional drain, amongst other fears.

[DarkTirade]

10. Same here.

I've always found that sex is so much better when there's a connection there.

[MrScorpio]

15. This thread is so freakin' serious

Only a poll could lighten the mood

[Lil Missy]

18. So, do the poll.

:shrug:

[MrScorpio]

19. Gotcha

I'll do it

Now listen to my radio show

http://www.live365.com/stations/charles101

It should be on in a minute or so

[motely36]

17. I am attracted to men shorter than me

although it is not a deal breaker. I am more into personalities than looks.

:hi: