Hmmm.... is your picker broken? (no not nose)

[SPKrazy]

do you pick people who are unavailable

or unattainable

or just plain old freaks?

:P

Then I think you may (like me) have a broken picker...

my friend says I'm fishing in the wrong ponds, and that's the problem...

However, I've managed to find the same issues recently in any pond I've fished in and while there are other fish in the sea, are they all the same?

I've met one exception, however she was unattainable for different reasons...

otherwise, I meet up with, am drawn to, emotionally unavailable and relationally unattainable partners...

how do you fix a broken picker? I'm thinking a lot about giving it a rest, focusing in other areas of my life, and developing new and varied interests. Maybe then the ponds will in fact be different enough, and the bait will be better, and the ponds will be deeper.

Otherwise, I'm at the point of saying what's the point of looking for anything but the obvious from someone I'm attracted to and visa versa.

:shrug:


too deep for the lounge thoughts, by SPKrazy ought to be my sig line

I don't know what happened to my sig line anyway lol

[Left Is Write]

1. You've given yourself some great advice.

I'm thinking a lot about giving it a rest, focusing in other areas of my life, and developing new and varied interests. Maybe then the ponds will in fact be different enough, and the bait will be better, and the ponds will be deeper.

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

2. Yup,

don't see much choice really.

keep doing what I'm doing and keep getting what I'm getting.

:hug:

[FedUpWithIt All]

7. I agree with LIW. Your own advice is the best advice.

:hi: :hug:

[SPKrazy]

12. Well I agree with both of you who agree with me

because both of you are great!

:hug:

:hi:

[no name no slogan]

3. I'm doing exactly that right now.

I'm resting my picker. In fact, I don't think I'm even paying attention to women right now. I've got too much other crap to work on. Plus, I've noticed that since I quit chasing women, I have a metric shitload of money now. That part alone is worth it.

[SPKrazy]

4. That's worth it right there

to have more money

Lord knows I've spent enough for a while on that.

[Lil Missy]

5. I have the opposite problem. My "picker" is dead, and not interested.

But NOW, the fucker is working, and getting invites!

Let's trade places. kay?

[SPKrazy]

11. Not right now

but I expect my picker will work, its just broken and maladjusted or something

:D

[NMDemDist2]

6. .....

buy it and listen to it about 10 times

then call me in the morning ;)

http://www.relapse.org/custom/cart/edit.asp?p=108361

edit to add... It worked for me :hi:

[SPKrazy]

10. It can't hurt

and frankly

I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired to the point that I'd rather not even try because it works out the same over and over...

:hug:

[NMDemDist2]

13. hey, that $20 could change your life

give it a shot

:hug:

[SPKrazy]

14. I've certainly spent more on

people I've met on plenty of freaks.com in 10 min...

:hug:

[NMDemDist2]

15. when your sick and tired of being sick and tired

maybe it's time to take a suggestion and try something different

just a thought

:yoiks:

:loveya:

[SPKrazy]

19. ///

did it

[NMDemDist2]

20. RIGHT FRAKKIN ON!!!!!!!!

:woohoo:

:yourock:

:loveya:

and while I won't offer to pay for it if it doesn't change your life, I will airmail you a loaf of my famous no knead bread as a consolation prize

:evilgrin:


actually, scratch that. I need a CD copy, my old cassette is almost worn out and who the hell still has a cassette deck these days anyway??

If you don't think it was worth the $$$, drop me a PM and I'll take if off your hands

:hi:

[SPKrazy]

17. ordered

will see :D

:hug:

[Dystopian]

8. Hey!

:hi:
Stop picking on old freaks!
:spank:
That's who I was looking for and he's nowhere to be found:-(

Anyway, I'm feeling as you do....but have no deep thoughts...
I'm more into getting my life intact...


Whatever happens, happens....
Sweet dreams...:hug:


peace~

[SPKrazy]

9. I'm NOT Picking On Old Freaks

I'm an old freak

I have new priorities

the ponds will change as I change.

:hug:

[Dystopian]

16. I know, Dear One...

I was just being goofy, you old freak....:hug:
My priorities have changed, also...
Sometimes it's good just to look in the other direction...
And you're right about the ponds....
Some deep...some shallow...

But you're not as old as I am......
I grow old...I grow old...Just reminded me of one of my favorite poems...

peace~

[SPKrazy]

18. I'm not far behind you

my dear

:hug:

and I knew you were being goofy you old freak :P

:loveya:

[Dystopian]

21. : )

Not far behind, and can never catch up;-)


:loveya:


peace~

[SPKrazy]

22. oh well

I can still look with admiration towards you :D


:hug:

[Dystopian]

24. made me smile!

Looking with admiration...because I'm old...older.
Gee...At my age, I guess that's the best I can do...:o
I can be admired for my age!
:woohoo:

I'm taking that as a beautiful bizzaro compliment...
Only from you, SPK...only from you....
Too cute and funny... :hug:

peace~

[MrsBrady]

23. I got busy with my own life

and "forgot" that I was looking for someone.

I also realized that I had been "picking" unavailable people not because of them, but because
*ahem* I really didn't want to be tied down. I, me, myself was afraid of commitment. *ahem*
Quit looking for outcomes or commitments, just had me some healthy fun/dating.

And I had also decided that I would be completely myself and if that wasn't good enough for "whoever", then their loss.

Started dating guys that were "nice" with no other expectations or requirements (except no republicans!)
Stopped looking for a "type". Nice is clearly overused and highly underrated.

After about 3 years of this, and a handful of nice guys, (still friends with two of them), I met HIM.

We just had our two year wedding anniversary. Me, married? There is a God.