Well its over

[mduffy31]

Got handed the papers today. I just don't understand dear, why wouldn't you communicate with me? Why did it come to this, and why did you wait 3 years before you finally just cut the rest of my heart out?

Oh well, nothing Jameson's or Black Bush can't help fix....temporaraly.

:cry:

[KitchenWitch]

1. I am sorry

That sucks.

[EastTennesseeDem]

2. I'm so very sorry. eom

[SPKrazy]

3. your heart will mend

and you will be able to move on from 3 years of purgatory

as painful as it is now, when it ends, then new doors can open, until it ends, they stay closed because you are unavailable. I realize that you obviously don't want it to end. I'm very sorry about that. Been there, done that many times. Not in marriages but in other relationships.

My decision to end my marriage was one that took 2 years to get completed because of many things, but it is now done, and life is improving for me, and my son, and I hope for my ex too.

[Robeson]

4. Wish you the best.

[rurallib]

5. Sounds like a new beginning! Nowhere to go but UP!

[Danger Mouse]

6. What can I say?

:hug:
Sometimes I wonder if it's even worth it.

[flvegan]

7. I'm sorry it went down like that.

I hope that there truly is a bright side that you can see and embrace. Best to you.

[applegrove]

8. Sorry.

[Bertha Venation]

9. I'm sorry, mduffy

:hug:

[mduffy31]

10. Thank you all

[Strong Atheist]

11. Sorry about that. I understand somewhat, and

have given up getting in relationships. Can't disappoint anyone that way ...

[lost-in-nj]

12. I'm sorry

my divorce was final last Nov.
after 30 years.....

:pals:

it does get better

little by little
and day by day


lost

[no name no slogan]

13. I got divorced three years ago

And after a rough year or two, I can say now that my life is better than it ever has been.

I have more money-- I have a savings account for the first time in years. I kicked a nasty drinking problem (my ex-wife is/was an alcoholic, and I was her drinking buddy). I have a new place to live, and I made a bunch of new friends and got reacquainted with many old friends.

Things look pretty bleak right now. But in a couple years' time, they will be better than you thought was possible.

Trust me. :D


(Sign me as one happily divorced dude)

[mduffy31]

14. Here is the thing

we have been apart for 3 years, so I knew this was going to happen, but I haven't really moved on because there was that sitting there so I felt that I couldn't really move on. I still love her, but it is time.