Dear "Single and Looking"...

[RadiationTherapy]

The more you want a partner, the more you must hide that.

The person who can more easily walk away from a relationship has the power in that relationship.

There is no "one".

Staying together is a choice; nothing more.

Keep your dignity.


Anoyone else?

[Orsino]

1. Can't really argue with that...

...except to point out that there's a lot to be said for simple honesty. Wearing one's heart on one's sleeve is a little risky, I guess, but I see nothing undignified in advertising general status.

[Radical Activist]

2. Dear Bad Advice,

Any woman who hides the fact that she's interested in me will never end up with me.

The rest of your post is fine.

[RadiationTherapy]

5. So sorry. I meant interested in relationships in a generic sense.

Yes, revealing one's attraction is, eventually, necessary.

[Roon]

3. Yes!

Jason and I are both doing that and we have a very nice relationship.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

4. nothing more unattractive than a clingy person who threatens death if you leave

so yes, i agree with you in essence

[RadiationTherapy]

6. The agreement sounds contingent.

Are there aspects you do disagree with?

[La Lioness Priyanka]

8. sometimes not keeping your dignity to be vulnerable is worth it.

[RadiationTherapy]

10. My dignity only comes into play after my confidence in the relationship is reinforced.

Pretty obvious, now that I type it.

I think I understand and I agree. If I am giving advice to single people looking, though; I say caution first when it comes to dignity anyway.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

7. wrong place

[no name no slogan]

9. There is no "one" -- THIS

There are several "ones" for everybody, but not a "one". You may find YOUR one early on, but it does not mean it's the only one for you.

Amazing what you learn divorce.