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Here is just a partial list of some of the consequences you and/or the cat could potentially face as a result of declawing:
Permanent pain for the rest of the cat's life
Permanent personality changes
Litterbox problems (and believe me, if you think a few clawmarks in furniture is a major problem, wait till you have a cat that won't use a litterbox...you haven't known hell on earth until that happens)
Heart problems - cats without claws can't exercise their chest muscles properly, including the heart, which leads to weakness and strokes and heart attacks early in life
Cat is unable to defend itself against predators
Cat is vulnerable to falls
A month or more of serious pain for the cat during healing, during which time it is agony for the poor creature to stand or sit
Permanent fear of you, or the vet
A risk of infection or death from the surgical procedure
If your cat ever accidentally gets out of the house, it will be unable to cope with much of the outside world and may die before you can find it
If you don't want to take our word for it, read some of the horror stories on the web about what happens to declawed cats.
Declawing is illegal in other civilized nations - for a reason! It's a horrible, horrible, brutal procedure, like someone cutting all your fingers off. You will be torturing your cat if you declaw her, make no mistake about it. :cry: Is furniture worth torturing a sentient being?
We have two cats, claws intact, as well as wood floors and some very nice furniture. With the exception of one drawer in the kitchen (where the cat food cans are kept), we've never had any problems with scratching on important stuff. Here's how we did it:
1) We provided them with lots of opportunities to scratch other types of things. They mostly use floor cardboard scratchers like this one:
http://www.properpet.com/category/cardboard-cat-scratchers/ Our cats love these and preferentially use them, but we also have a cat tree with sisal posts, which they occasionally use. If you get a sisal post, it needs to be big and sturdy enough that the cat won't feel that the post might fall over on top of it. A lot of failures to get cats to use a post are due to the instability/small size of the post. We also have an old, beat-up office chair in a back room which they are allowed to abuse to their heart's content (picking our battles). End result: no scratching on our new expensive living room furniture
2) We let them go outside in our fully fenced, cat proof yard. We installed this system here:
http://www.catfencein.com/ and a cat door at the back door. Was it expensive? Yes. But not as much as replacing a brand new Anderson patio door would be, I bet. They scratch on the fence outside, and on the logs outside, and they run off all their energy in the yard, and they don't whine or scratch at the door or tear around the house making noise at 3 am. End Result: We have the happiest, most tired, highly stimulated, and thus the best-behaved young male cats in the neighborhood, no joke. Visitors regularly comment on how well-socialized and well-behaved our cats are. It's because they get to be obnoxious monsters outside and then can act like civilized beings again when they come in the house. Also, if your cat is used to being outside because she was a stray for a long time, she's probably *always* going to be obnoxious about wanting to go out. You probably won't be able to change that desire in her, nor the negative behavior associated with it (whining, scratching, being annoying), so my suggestion is to try to work with her about it - find a way for her to experience the great outdoors safely. There are many ways that people have found to deal with this problem, cat fencing is only one of them. If you or hubby have any carpentry skills, maybe you could build her an enclosed cat run or a window box?
3) We use consistent discipline, including the squirt bottle, but also verbal praise & correction. We pick our battles, and correct them over important things, NOT *everything*. When we were teaching them what to scratch on when they were little, we praised them profusely when they used the scratchy boxes, and said "Ah Ah!" sharply when they scratched on something they weren't supposed to. When they stop doing the behavior that was corrected, they get praised for that. This has to happen *immediately* after you see the behavior, or it doesn't work. The "Ah Ah!" does the trick 99.9% of the time for us - we've only had to use a squirt bottle twice in the entire time we've had them (once for persistently climbing the curtains, once for persistently climbing a XMas tree). One application of the squirt bottle was adequate in both instances - the behavior stopped instantly and permanently.
4) We accept that they are cats, who have different needs and desires than we do, which may or may not fit so well with our lifestyle. And we work to figure out what we can and can't change about them and work around that to find pragmatic solutions that work for both parties. Example: Cats need to scratch. That's non-negotiable. Instead of trying to stop them from scratching, or take away their natural, important ability to do that, we provided options for them that did not involve our new living room furniture, and found ways to communicate with them to encourage the kinds of behaviors we wanted. We also treat them with respect and dignity, as one would a roommate, albeit one that doesn't pay the rent or speak English very well (so they only get part of the vote around here). And amazingly enough, they very often return the favor. Cats are not furniture or decorations in one's house, they are sentient beings who have feelings and needs which need to be taken into account. And there are certain things that just go along with cats that just have to be taken into account when you live with them. One is clawing. Another is pet hair. If you can't deal with that, then you probably shouldn't have a cat.
5) The kind of polyurethane that goes on hardwood floors is extremely durable, much more so than the poly put on furniture or doors. To my knowledge there is not a single scratch mark on a floor anywhere in our house made by a cat, despite having fully-clawed Kitty WWF wrestling matches and Indy 500 races around the house on a daily basis for the last two years and a brand-new hardwood floor put in right before we got the beasties. Hubby and I have done a lot more damage to the floors than they have. If your floors are your only concern, you can probably rest assured that your kitty will not be able to tear up your floors like she did your door. Also, cats don't like to scratch on horizontal smooth surfaces, so I doubt she will even try to be destructive in that way.
6) You said you tried the SoftPaws and it didn't work so well. Maybe have a conversation with your vet about the issue?
Hopefully this was helpful for you. Please please don't declaw your poor kitty!