I Gotta a Problem...

[PJPhreak]

A Well Connected to the System Freeper MIL that hates me.

A number of years ago,after 17 years of being estranged from her Mother,My Gf was contacted by her Mothers current husband.
My Gf is a Deadhead/Rainbow/Haight St Type. So am I.

My MIL and her current Husband Are/Were currently Employed by Dept of HHS (She is a Retired Caseworker, Husband is currently a HHS Case Manager/Supervisor. My Gf is a SSI Recipient. My inlaws are "Obama is a muslum/Affirmative Action Sux/If you don't live a "Brady Bunch" Lifestyle you are "Broken" and NEED to be fixed...At All Costs Screaming Freepers.

So anyway,They started to develop a relationship after all that time, A good thing or so I thought.

In the last 7 years My Mil has had my Gf arrested on Very Nasty "Pot" Charges,Thru deception She then gained Power of Atty of our House,Autos.Savings.....30 Months Later all we had to show was a $4500 Neon to show for all our life efforts.

My Sister-in-Law has had her life investigated by HHS Twice....Both times by a "Anonymous Tip" of Sexual Child Abuse of their daughter by her Dad (My Brother-in-Law) Which both times proved to be total BS.(My MIL Hates my BIL Also)

We have had LOTS of other problems with these people over the years, many of which lead us to believe that these folk are using their access to HHS computer systems and the info that they contain to mess with people. (I believe that is how they found my Gf after 17 years of no contact with them)

Anyway we bought a house out in the country a few weeks ago and to prevent any more BS we put the Property in MY name...And MIL Tripped The F++k Out!!!!!!!!!!

She has stated to other family members that she is convinced that we bought this place with the intention of growing pot. I live in Kansas,not in Cali....So even if I wanted to "Grow" Not Here-Not Ever!!!!!!

We are so convinced that these people are gonna have the Cops/HHS/Health inspector/Building Codes Inspector or something of the like up our ass that we need a bit of advice...

We are simple folk, all we want is to be able to live our lives without fear of this Wacko Freeper. yet for the last 7 years it has not been possible....this woman is making my Gf's life just miserable....I WANT THE HARASSMENT TO STOP NOW!!!!

I have never have trusted ANY part of "The System" so I have no knowledge how to use it,
How would you do or what would be the best way to stop this for good?

Edit for lousy spelling

[Kali]

1. attorney, restraining order

Man, what fucked up people! You need to find a good, sympathetic attorney to advise you. Bottom line these people are harassing you and you do need some legal protection from the "system" - the big problem is they obviously know how to game it better than you do - hence the need for a lawyer.

[ThomCat]

2. I second that.

You need a restraining order. They need to be prohibited by law from interfering with your life.

[PJPhreak]

3. "the big problem is they obviously know how to game it better than you do"

Oh if you only knew....They are so well connected its not even funny.

This is the Wichita area we are speaking of....In other words Freeper Hell

And I don't think a restraining order would help...."Someone" planted some Dramamine Pills,Irritable Bowel Syndrome Pills and some other "Would'nt get you High" Substance in the trunk of what was then my Gf's Car...Dropped an anonymous "Tip" to the halfway house that my Gf was at after her release...And tried to get her sent back to jail. The Stoners we know thought this was actually funny...as did the Halfway House....I mean has ANYONE YOU know tried to get high on Irritable Bowel Syndrome Medication??? The Halfway House suspected a "Plant" also.

Why one might ask???

We can only guess....But it has got to STOP!!

[Kali]

4. also document EVERYTHING

sit down and write out all that you did here, with more detail and dates/times/etc - keep that up with anything new, don't speak to them on the phone or any other way but keep any messages/e-mails/letters - you may need it all. Do not engage with them in any way. Find an attorney, really. There are some on here that may be able to help you with the search for a good one in your area or with other options.

You MIGHT even be able to develop a safe relationship with local law enforcement if you approach them first and with respect...I have learned that it doesn't hurt to "know" a deputy or other local cop. You don't have to have one for a roommate - jsut somebody you can wave to and maybe ask a question once in a while - never ask for favors (getting out of tickets and that kind of shit - that is up to them - never ask or imply!) but just as a "neighbor," you know?

[PJPhreak]

5. I have,For the most part...

Always been law abiding (Except for my liking to partake in the Ganja on occasion) I don't Drink or drive like a fool,am nonviolent,Have never owned a firearm. I know a few of the local Officers here in the town I live in but they long ago decided that I am a "Hardcore" Deadhead/Hippie/Pothead.So no help there.

And as of a couple of weeks ago when this all got started again,we have not had ANY direct contact with them....But other family members say that my MIL is in a total Rage.

This Really scares me. and my Gf is worried also, I mean Really Worried. These folk work just like G.W.B. They think that "Laws" only apply to "Others"

[no name no slogan]

6. If they are using Dept of Human Services info, they are in some seriously deep trouble

I work for my state's Department of Human Services, and if they are using protected, private government information to harass you, they are not only in serious violation of their terms of employment but are also breaking the law.

If you suspect this, you need to contact the Dept of Human Services ASAP and file a grievance. Not only can they be terminated, but they may face criminal charges for using protected info to harass you.

This is a serious matter. If you honestly suspect they are using government information to harass you you NEED to contact an attorney.

[PJPhreak]

7. Not only me...

but a number of years ago A HHS Caseworker and a bunch of local police showed up at my Sister-in laws house...To investigate claims of sexual child abuse involving my then brother in law and his daughter. The information about this came from an anonymous "Tip". The only people who had privy to anything going on in their family.Real or Imagined. would be my MIL and her husband.

The number of "anonymous" tips to just the right agency (Social/Legal) or persons (Caseworkers/LEO's),on just the right kind of subjects (Child abuse/Domestic Violence/Drugs) that our family has been subject to is nuts! And NONE of it is TRUE!

My SIL and BIL are Very Law abiding,republican blue collar folk...not Freeper just republican,They are honest,hard working,typical middle American folk,yet they get investigated multiple times on nothing more than "Tips"?

Edit to add...

I could spend hours telling stories of things surrounding this MIL of mine that just don't add up....Their living arrangement for example...How does a SS Recipient not have any of her monthly SS deducted due to her "Live in the same House but "Divorced From" Husbands Supervisory Level Income from his HHS Salary???

If I tried that stunt they would take away my GF's SSI in a Flash!!

They know the System Very Well....What to keep,what to shred,What to delete.who to lie to and what lies to tell...It has been impossible to get anyone to listen to us,ya know the Rap....Who are they (The System for lack of a better term) gonna listen to...The Hippie/Druggies or the Upstanding Members of the Community.

Christ,Why does this sound so much like an episode of "As the Stomach Turns" This kinda crap only exists on TV,not real life,Sheese