What year did you lose your virginity? Please read instructions.

[Writer]

Please place the year you first "got happy" with someone else, then - in the text - tell us where.

I thought it would be interesting if we grouped all of our deflowering by year.

You know, so we can know who else got happy in the same year.



;)

[Writer]

1. The 1940's - Bombs Away.

[Writer]

2. The 1950's - When Chevy Made Comfortable Back Seats.

[MineralMan]

86. 1959. I was 14 and she

was 15 and someone I'd known since we were babies. We were actually only a month apart in age. In a car parked in her parent's garage. It was a very long time until it happened again.

[Writer]

3. The 1960's - The Grass Was Not Only Comfortable, But Tasty

[rurallib]

14. The '60s - atight fit in a small car

[SCantiGOP]

50. 1966

A month before I turned 16. I had a boxy old Fiat, but the front seat went all the way back.

[Blue_In_AK]

80. 1961

on a blanket on the ground in the mountains near Woodland Park, Colorado.

[Brickbat]

4. Edit -- I'll move it.

I see what you're doing now; sorry to wreck it.

[Writer]

5. The 1970's - How Tight Were Your Bell-bottoms?

[Capn Sunshine]

15. 1970, meteor shower, lunar eclipse, and the Northern Lights plus some great pot

in Upper Penninsula Michigan in July. She was from Louisiana, I was from So Cal. Our paths crossed. It was the logical thing to do from a cosmic and beautious standpoint. Oh yeah, there were fireworks in there somewhere. I inherited the property. I never should have sold that place.

[av8rdave]

16. Late 70s

I was a late bloomer.

[denbot]

18. 1974 and I blame two institutions for my debauchery.

Boone's Farm Strawberry Hill, and Hip hugger Levi Super Bells. Oh yeah, and ten dollar lids..
:hippie:

[bluesbassman]

34. 74 was a good year there denbot.

Too bad the drive-in has all but vanished. I feel for the youth of today. :)

We used to score that obnoxious Almaden. Man what a hangover recipe!

[Kaleva]

22. I remember my bare ass being cold that night in a tent.

[hippywife]

65. Well, Iost my virginity in 1974 at the age of 16.

But I wouldn't call it getting happy. It was his 18th birthday and that was my gift. We were having a small get together with his parents, his brother and his girlfriend. His parents went out for dinner earlier in the evening so only his brother and his girlfriend were home. We went up to his room and he barricaded the door so his brother couldn't open it.

I never felt a thing except disappointed. :eyes:

[Skittles]

75. 1971

Bicester (pronounced Bister) England

[FarLeftRage]

78. October, 1972...

In a trailer that was parked in a garage. I was 14 and she was a very mature looking 13.

[Gregorian]

83. 1976

We spent the night in a cove on the beach near the Pescadero light house. A bottle of champagne and a fire.

[Writer]

6. The 1980's - Hairspray is a Mating Call.

[Sky Masterson]

52. Early 80's

I played strip slap-jack with the girl next door. :evilgrin:

[SarahB]

70. Dec. 5, 1986

In my bed at home while Land of Confusion was playing on MTV... oh yeah! Sweaty Reagan puppets!

[lazarus]

72. 1981

On a dirt road south of Andalusia, Alabama in my pickup truck. I was 15, she was 16, we were in love.

[Dulcinea]

85. Summer of 1983.

I had just graduated from high school. It happened in his basement with ZZ Top's "Gimme All Your Lovin'" video playing on MTV. His parents were out bowling.

[Writer]

7. The 1990's - Dude, Where's Your Apartment?

[Brickbat]

8. 1992.

In my bed in my bedroom at my parents' house.

[Maine-ah]

40. Exactly the same here

lol...1992, my bed, my room, my parents house. While they were asleep in the next room :hi:

[Brickbat]

43. Mine were out of town, several states away.

I wasn't risking a thing. :)

[CBR]

17. 1999: dorm room in the great metropolis of Athens, WV... nt

[betharina]

38. 1990. in a car behind the A&P. nt

[MrCoffee]

48. Nineteen Naughty Four...common TV room of the dorm

Oh yeah.

[Radical Activist]

69. Sadly, I had no instructions to read

hot tub at girlfriend's parents house

[krispos42]

91. 1995

In a wooded area next to a small pond.

Came out, the car had been towed.

Didn't particularly care. :-)

[Writer]

9. The 2000's - Is that An Explosive Device in Your Pocket, Or Are You Just Happy to See Me?

[nomorenomore08]

31. 2008, in a way-too-expensive hotel room...

So do I win the thread? Or does the fact that I was 24 freakin' years old merit a Nelson Muntz-esque "HAHA!"? :shrug:

[Odin2005]

67. 2002, 9th Grade, we were both 15, her room.

[kayakjohnny]

10. 1973

Beach...Tampa....car....night time.

It was pretty good.

I remember everything being 'slippery'.

[spinbaby]

42. Also 1973

West Virginia University. Dorm room.

[EndersDame]

11. 2006- I thought this was supposed to be fun!

not painful and awkward ! I felt kinda old at 20 losing my Virginity most everyone I went to high school with had already lost theirs!

[taterguy]

12. In what respect Charlie?

[triguy46]

13. 1970

35°53'50.66"N 95°14'50.35"W

Or, as it is more commonly known, Lake Ft. Gibson, OK.

[Withywindle]

19. 1985 - Quick, Before Reagan Gets Us All Nuked!

Blacksburg, VA.

[BlueIris]

35. Win. nt

[Aristus]

20. 1986 - With a girl who was just as scared and jittery as me.

The first time wasn't the best. After that, though, no problems... :evilgrin:

On edit: On the radio at the time: "The Way It Is" by Bruce Hornsby and The Range, and "True Blue" by Madonna. And yes, it lasted long enough for two songs; I told you, I was nervous...

[Drum]

21. 1981

Her place, off-campus. She'd just graduated from the college I was about to start at.

[BarenakedLady]

27. Howdy stranger!

Long time, no see!

:hug:

[Drum]

71. Hiii!

:hug: xo

[insanity]

23. 2004 durring a high school lunch break.

Pretty terrible sex, too. I've gotten better in the last 5 years, at least I hope I have.

[kwassa]

24. 1968, in the woods at a summer church camp in the Berkshires

Of course, it was a Unitarian church camp, what else would you expect?

We were both 16. She was also a virgin, and it really was one of those not-so-great first time fumbled experiences. Much better the second time.

[nomorenomore08]

29. Unitarian? Hell, they probably passed out condoms!

:hide:

[Blue_In_AK]

81. I met my "first" at church camp, also,

but we only kissed at camp.

[mnhtnbb]

88. That is so funny. My boyfriend and I --at a Presbyterian church camp--

were getting it on in 1968, too.

[MiddleFingerMom]

25. Um, I'm not quite sure I "lost my virginity" my first time. You see.....

.

.

[otherlander]

26. ...

[Chan790]

28. 1994.

In my cousin's bedroom with a friend of his (Cady) while on vacation. I wouldn't describe it as a happy experience though, in retrospect it seems like I was taken advantage of.

Oh the joys of no longer being 14. The experience was made worse by the fact that needing some music to cover the goings-on we chose "Alive" by Pearl Jam...epically bad decision. Also, she was my sidekick for the rest of the two weeks I was in Florida and she was unbearable.

Okay, honestly I have a good sense of humor about it. It was a poor life experience, I'm not scarred by it or anything though.

[nomorenomore08]

30. So you lost it to a song that hints at mother-son incest?

All I can say is... :yoiks:

[Chan790]

32. Yup.

Awkward and strange.

This taught me an important life lesson...there is an inherent need for the right music for any such situation and you should burn a CD for that purpose which you replace at least one every 6 months to keep it from being out-of-taste and stale; this CD should be kept in a discrete kit with other sex-essentials. Currently: CD, Lube, Condoms, Pair of scissors, styptic and Motrin.

Chan790, Evil Boy Scout

[Capn Sunshine]

59. Yeah there could be a whole other thread on this

Think I'll start it

[hfojvt]

33. 2012

hope springs eternal

[rcrush]

36. Tomorrow. Your place. You bring the bacon.

[BOSSHOG]

37. Summer of 71 - My girlfriend and I invented oral sex at a drive in movie

That was like a double feature that has been in reruns ever since.

[tango-tee]

39. 1969

In Nuremberg, Germany.

Right there in the the peace, love and happiness movement. In a town that stood - maybe still stands - for anything but peace, love and happiness.

Fortified with a prescription for the pill, which my mom got for me.

Yes, indeed, siree.

[velvet]

41. also 1969

In Newcastle, Australia. A sweet day, a stolen day, we were both supposed to be at uni. And awwwwwwww it was 1st September, the first day of spring.

On edit: Sorry OP, for meandering into the wild like this. I didn't see how you'd structured this thread till after I posted.

[DarkTirade]

44. 2001

Orlando Florida, her parents' house when they weren't there. She was not a virgin, but the only guy she'd been with before me was, shall we say, a bit of a shrimp and couldn't last more than three or four minutes. So not only did I not have to deal with the awkwardness of it being a first time for both of us, but I still managed to impress the hell out of her. Although it wasn't that great for me... let's just say that after that, I decided to switch to ultra-thin condoms. Because I could barely feel a damn thing. Which is probably why I lasted as long as I did. :P

[brendan120678]

45. 1997

February 2, 1997 to be exact.

In the back of my (dad's) 1989 Volvo station wagon.
With piles of blankets around us because it was February in upstate New York.

Pretty classy, eh?

[TrogL]

46. 1980 London, Ontario, her apartment

[MissMillie]

47. 1982

My first love was house-sitting for a friend... so we were at that house.

[proteus_lives]

49. 2000.

A tent in the woods. ;-)

[Mojambo]

51. 1997 in the backseat of my Ford Escort in a QFC parking lot.

Ah romance!

[Capn Sunshine]

53. there is a certain element of voyeur in this thread, no?

fascinating , yet.....

[SoxFan]

54. 1262

You think unhooking a bra is bad? Try chainmail and a chastity belt.

[Beer Snob-50]

55. early 1980's

at skidmore college in saratoga springs ny. she was also new to this whole sex thing. i didn't last long. it was nice.

[Manifestor_of_Light]

56. 1973.

January, about the time of Roe v. Wade, ironically.
Freshman in college, had a boyfriend, he was a virgin too, dorm room, San Antonio, TX.

[Bennyboy]

57. 1972.

Right between these trees With a girl named Pat. in fact my two first sexual experiences were with girls named Pat. and I never had another experience with a girl named Pat that was not one of the first two Pats.

[Capn Sunshine]

58. Hey, that spot looks familiar

Michigan?

[Bennyboy]

63. At my family camp in Northern CA

Out of Butte Meadow CA. About 40 minutes east of Chico. By Lassen Park. A place called Old Springs. A primitive camp. The first time we went there there were these old springs there...hence the name. We went up there to scatter my dad's ashes this summer. he loved it so.

[Capn Sunshine]

64. NoCal was my second guess!

really, it looks SO familiar....like I spent a couple of hours there hanging out when I was younger

[caitxrawks]

60. it was 2004.

It was in my room.

It was with my first boyfriend.

He weighed a good 100 pounds more than me.

I am NOT a small girl.

He was NOT a gifted lover, then or ever.


*puke*
I'm so glad I'm married to a Latino Lover now ;D

EDIT: I'd also like to add, I was only 16 in 2004. Yeah, go ahead and feel OLD.

[jrandom421]

61. 1968

I was twelve years old and lost it to the babysitter in my own bed. Ten years later, she introduces me to our daughter. :)

[bamacrat]

62. 1998, 10th grade after school.

[Odin2005]

66. Oops.

[pink-o]

68. 1971

In the Richmond District of San Francisco, my boyfriend's house. We were supposed to be in school--I was a sophomore he was a senior--and his mother was probably in some bar somewhere drinking herself into oblivion. At the time, we only cared that she wasn't home, but looking back what a tragic figure. So many women got lost in a bottle because their lives were not their own back then

OTOH, we had a great time. Like most young girls, I was willing to make him happy with sex, but I preferred making out. Strange to think back on that--at least maturity is good for something!!!

[abq e streeter]

73. Labor Day weekend, 1972

details are sketchy.... I remember buying a bottle of tequila in the afternoon; I vaguely remember being at some sort of party much later in the evening (?), may have been in our, or another dorm; may have been off-campus....I woke up with Ann the next morning in my dorm room at the University of New Mexico... Without getting icky here, there was pretty conclusive evidence that we had, in fact, "done it". Everything but what I described has always been one big blur. But left Illinois a 21 year old virgin; took about four days in New Mexico to change that.

[Skittles]

74. dup

[old mark]

76. 1964, in someone's apartment.

With his girlfriend.

:evilgrin:

mark

[Doc_Technical]

77. 1972

Am I to assume that when you say "Lost your Virginity"
you were talking about heterosexual intercourse?

It took place in her apartment.
I was shocked to discover that she wanted it
more than I did.
It was a moment (and I mean that literally)
that I'll never forget.

[Blue_In_AK]

79. Delete. I misunderstood your instructions.

[Gregorian]

82. Oops. See above.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

84. What year did you lose your virginity? Please read instructions.

you first.... ;)

[mnhtnbb]

87. 1968

At my boyfriend's house.

[BuddhaGirl]

89. 1983

Newport Beach, CA...at his house...he was 16 years older than me. He opened a bottle of champagne, it was romantic and fun :-)

[TheMightyFavog]

90. 2002 I was in Junior College

On some State Land that was once a fish hatchery that my scout troop used to camp at when I was a kid.

I was in love with the woman who did my makeup in a theater production I was in, the sex was not that good, and I later found out she lied to me about her past, which had me scrambling to my doctor.