Oh yeah,about the female mate getting heavy after marriage..

[Roon]

I am 43...and I have seen a lot of my buddies gain a lot of weight while their wives were preggers. I have seen it..not all..but some.. :-)

[rcrush]

1. It happens when you accept that your life is over.

And you just stop giving a shit.

[rebel with a cause]

2. some men encourage their wives to gain weight

because they think that no other man will want them when they get chubby. Then the man can go out and cheat and excuse themselves because wifey got fat, and they 'know' that no one else will want her so he feels he is safe to do whatever he wants. Yes, I have know men like this.

[HiFructosePronSyrup]

3. How do they compare to unmarried males?

I'm thinking that people both overreacted to that story and didn't really get it at the same time.

[Radical Activist]

4. apparently i missed a good flame fest

Most people gain weight as they get older. Both sexes. BFD.