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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 05:50 PM
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Poll question: How many here could never kill another person?
Not judging - those who can usually do for good reaasons (statistically, at least...)

But who just couldn't kill another person?
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 05:53 PM
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1. I won't ever know, I hope.
But, I feel pretty strongly that if someone tried to harm me or a loved one, and the only means I have is a fatal solution...
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 06:00 PM
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5. Is that the best situation though?
I mean, as long as you don't intend the assailant to die, it isn't really murder...
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RainDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 05:54 PM
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2. don't know
but I do know that when I was mugged, I fought back. so, I think I could kill someone if that person was threatening my life or the lives of my kids... I DEFINITELY think I could kill someone who was threatening my kids.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 06:01 PM
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6. I got in a fight when being mugged too...
I headbutted them - and I never do this - and I never knew how - but it just happened.

He fell on the ground and I ran

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RainDog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 06:17 PM
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9. I wasn't so impressive
the two kids mugging me smiled and one started to take my bag off my shoulder. I swung away and started kicking them (I happened to have had on some frye boots b/c it had rained) but when I realized I was fighting them and they might be armed, they knocked me over and messed up my elbow getting my bag.

I was on the phone calling my job to open the bldg b/c it had been accidentally locked, so the people I worked with heard the whole thing.

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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 08:30 PM
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15. I was much younger
In today's world I may not try such a thing...this was 1997
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 05:58 PM
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3. Hate to say it, but there is probably no one here who could not kill another person.
It all becomes instinctual... no thought required when someone is trying to kill you.

Survival instinct.
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 05:59 PM
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4. I probably couldn't, at least until next week.
I'm really swamped through the end of the month.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 06:02 PM
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7. My guess is "Dunno" will win in the end
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 06:08 PM
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8. My Grandfather was anti-aircraft in Europe.
And he said that he was glad he was shooting planes instead of hand to hand combat.

They were in battle and across the valley the germans were launcing V-1 missiles. The soldiers on both sides could see each other, but they left each other alone.

The germans would launch a missile, my grandfather and his crew would try to shoot them down...
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Duer 157099 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 06:41 PM
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10. Never say never
Unless it's in reference to Wal*Mart.

There was a time when I would have thought I would never be capable, but these days, just seeing certain people's faces on TV is enough to make me really question that assumption.
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Burma Jones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 06:45 PM
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11. If someone was after a kid, or someone otherwise unable to defend themself
Yeah, I could kill, if I had to.
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 07:10 PM
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12. I honestly voted "Dunno..."
But I'm human, and humans are killers. I'm guessing probably yes...but I dunno.
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Dr Morbius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 07:15 PM
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13. I decided some time ago that the only time it is permissable to do harm...
...is to prevent a greater harm, or harm to the innocent.

I could kill if I had to, but ONLY if I had to. I'd hate myself for it, I'm sure.
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miscsoc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 07:17 PM
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14. it's apparently much harder to actually kill a person than you would think
Edited on Thu Apr-29-10 07:20 PM by miscsoc
even in war, when the enemy is trying to kill you. I think most of us would imagine we could kill an enemy soldier out of self preservation if nothing else, but apparently we're often mistaken in that. In the second world war most allied soldiers were incapable of actually shooting to kill in a real combat environment. a majority of conscripts just intentionally missed their targets. once the u.s. realised this they spent a LOT of money trying to make its soldiers more willing to kill people, and researcching the psychological techniques needed to achieve this surprisingly difficult aim. By vietnam they had largely succeeded, apparently. I also imagine the modern professional soldier will be more capable of killing than their conscript predecessors.

There was a book written about all of this which I'd been intending to read, does anyone know what I'm thinking of? Can't recall the title or author. About the problem of training soldiers to really kill other human beings.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 08:31 PM
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16. +1
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iris27 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 12:28 AM
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22. One of the changes they made was to make their shooting range targets
head-and-torso-shaped instead of the standard circular bullseye. Something about shooting at a humanoid form breaks down one of the barriers that made soldiers in real combat hesitate to shoot an actual person.

Don't know the book, but that was in one of my psych major classes (maybe social?).
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miscsoc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 02:05 PM
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31. yeah, i remember hearing about that particular bit
Edited on Fri Apr-30-10 02:12 PM by miscsoc
Was this the book I was thinking of? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/On_Killing:_The_Psychological_Cost_of_Learning_to_Kill_in_War_and_Society

edit: yeah, i think that's the one.

This is an interesting little article for an encyclopedia of military history by the author:

http://www.killology.com/article_agress&viol.htm

"One major modern revelation in the field of military psychology is the observation that such resistance to killing one's own species is also a key factor in human combat. *Brig. Gen. S. L. A. Marshall first observed this during his work as an official U.S. Army historian in the Pacific and European theaters of operations in World War II. Based on his post-combat interviews, Marshall concluded in his book Men Against Fire (1946, 1978) that only 15 to 20 percent of the individual riflemen in World War II fired their own weapons at an exposed enemy soldier. Key weapons, such as *flame-throwers, were usually fired. Crew-served weapons, such as *machine guns, almost always were fired. And action would increase greatly if a nearby leader demanded that the soldier fire. But when left on their own, the great majority of individual combatants appear to have been unable or unwilling to kill.

Marshall's findings were and have remained controversial. Faced with scholarly concern about a researcher's methodology and conclusions, the scientific method involves replicating the research. In Marshall's case, every available parallel, scholarly study validates his basic findings. One of these studies was Ardant du Picq's survey of French officers in the Korean War when the rate of psychiatric casualties was almost seven times higher than the average for World War II. Only after the war settled down, lines stabilized, and the threat of having enemy in rear areas decreased did the average rate go down to that of World War II. Again, just the potential for close-up, inescapable, interpersonal confrontation is more effective and has greater impact on human behavior than the actual presence of inescapable, impersonal death and destruction. "
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 08:39 PM
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17. I'd sure like to say yes. In principle I think some situations might call for ruthlessness
But that's a highly abstract thing to say about something as real as ending someone's life. I mean, if it was a convicted murderer and the crime was horrible enough, I'm pretty sure I could pull the switch. But that's a state execution, a whole government and a people through their court system made that choice, not just me.

I'm the kind of person who keeps on thinking about the ethics of my really big decisions right through to the end--always questioning, always rethinking. That really isn't a trait conducive to someone just "pulling the trigger" when the time is at hand.

There's also the question about whether I could keep my head in a crisis. I've been in emergencies where I was very clear headed, but I've also been in situations where I was pretty useless. I don't panic, but I do kinda freeze and overthink even when there's really not time to do so.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 08:40 PM
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18. Include me out. Trust me, you CAN if you have to. No further
explanation will be offered from me, if that's OK with you.

Redstone
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 09:27 PM
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19. I could never kill
And for that reason, I realize I could never own a gun
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Walk away Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-29-10 10:08 PM
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20. I don't think I could ever kill anyone yet I probably wish someone would die....
every time I drive down route 3!
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proteus_lives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 12:17 AM
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21. Everyone is capable of killing.
Now the question is, by killing do you mean murder?
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 12:54 AM
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23. See my "kill-a-man" post
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keroro gunsou Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 01:06 AM
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24. i could.
most people i know in the "real" world are a waste of skin and oxygen. the world would be better off without them.
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csziggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 01:58 AM
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25. I couldn't in cold blood but if there were a situation of them or me
Or them or an innocent, I might try.

There have been people I wanted dead, but it was not worth destroying my life to kill them. Karma caught up to them, and they destroyed their own lives without me having to lift a finger. They aren't dead, but a few of them probably wish they were, they screwed themselves so bad.
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 04:26 AM
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26. I kinda hope not.
Hope I never have to find out.
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 04:51 AM
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27. You never really know till you are in that situation...I have worked with too many
violent and unpredictable people to say anything definite.

m
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slay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 05:52 AM
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28. I know I could
but would is an entirely different story. Lets just hope it never comes to that.
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stray cat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 07:43 AM
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29. I hope myself and my loved ones have people around who are willing to help
Edited on Fri Apr-30-10 07:44 AM by stray cat
if I'm ever victimized. I also hope I would have the courage to rescue someone else in trouble and would not just walk away or hope someone else will happen by in time.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-30-10 08:05 AM
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30. I don't want to find out, but if I really HAD to do so, I could probably manage it.
I'm sure I'd be pretty fucked up afterward by the gravity of it.
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