Lets get past the elementary.

[The Lone Liberal]

Poll question: Lets get past the elementary.

What really counts? The old bod goes, unless you are among the elite that can tucked and tight on demand. Then of course the belly button ends up as a chin cleft.

So what really counts over the ages

For me it’s a deep throaty laugh, ala Annie Archer in Fatal Attraction.

So what do you think, either male or female what counts more?

[bubblesby2002]

1. I go for the deep throaty laugh too

especially when it comes along with a good sense of humour and a good mind.

[grannylib]

2. Excellent choice, offering the combo of #s 1 and 2; that gets me every

time. Smart and funny...it can get one through a lot!!

[SarahB]

3. Maybe I shouldn't say this but...

Smart, followed by good sexual chemistry, then warm and sensitive, then funny. I need them all though to be happy, but if I had to prioritize honestly.

[GoddessOfGuinness]

4. The 1&2 combo

Humor and a good mind will always keep each other in check, so he'll continually be thoughtful without taking himself too seriously.

[tjwash]

5. I like the sense of adventure.

My wife has to have a great sense of adventure to put up with my ass.

[St. Jarvitude]

6. Genuine.

I can't stand girls who act dumber than they are to get guys. Just be yourself for chrissakes!

A sense of humor & good mind comes in a very close second, for me. Especially the humor - as long as she's not laughing at everything I say, in which case it's probably fake and thus violates rule #1. :)

Damn, that sounds so stale and technical.

[greatauntoftriplets]

7. A creative spirit.

With emphasis on the spirit part.