There is a story, that explains things like the beer and travel money stuff. Although I learned it from better people to me, it is how I try and think on things.
Lets say someone takes your beer and travel money, then puts it on a table and the person is between you and the table.
The beer and travel money is yours, so you walk to pick them up, and the guy hits you in the face.
So you get up, and walk back to the table to pick up what is yours, he says you should be mean to him, you don't, you just walk to the table, and he hits you in the face again.
So you get back up, not mad at the person, not even giving any respect to the person, what is on the table is already yours, he has no right to stop you, so you walk to the table and he hits you again, and says you should lie or be violent to him to take the beer and travel money back.
The person is showing power not right, but why is he doing it? To try and change your action and goal from simply picking up what is already yours, to hurting someone for no reason. However the truth is that there is no reason to hate the person, since the beer and travel money is already yours anyways, and he is irrelevant to that.
So you shrug and go and pick up your beer and travel money again, does it matter that he will hit you again, nope, do you hurt him, nope, that would in some way respect his methods and decisions on how he takes things, and how he wants the world to act.
That is Burt Gordon, "you got to be hard eddie" They want you to be violent and mean, or deceptive and any other way, then when they move you down that path, they will give you some of what is already yours, and then get you to be even worse to get a little more, it is training. And since the beer and travel money is already yours, why would you let someone train you to be like them to get what is already yours?
That explains many things, and is why, even though the world shows that if you are mean and without caring you can accumulate many things, it is far better in my view to not let the world change you, and just go and pick up what is already yours. That is what the dark side does not see, people do not chose to hurt them because they don't know that they could easily destroy them, they choose not to because that is not what they want to be.
Side note, there are many people that find ways to find their beer and travel money without being mean, or doing worse things, which shows also that people that think power makes right, do not always prevail, nor do they get what they really want most of the time, for people to be like them.
The point is when people say you are wrong because it is obvious that all you have to do is fight the guy to get what is already yours, they don't understand that you don't do that, not because you don't know you can, but because that is not how you think the world should be. There literally are people that think people that don't fight for what is theirs already are in the wrong, what they don't understand is those people that don't fight understand that is part of a system that some perpetuate in society, but not a system that everyone chooses to be part of.
However that does not mean you sit on the ground and refuse to go and get your beer and travel money again, but you also don't go and try to get some other beer and travel money when you already have it, even if it is not where you are at.
I think that is part of this song also, although nothing good ever dies :)
Crash Test Dummies: Superman's Song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ihUIPlLw2ZEYou can fight with passion and many good intents, without changing what you are, I think that is part of the concept of even loving your enemies, and ideas of truth and education, while not giving into what you disagree with, and part of their goal is to make you like them, so not giving in is also not changing what you choose to do, or what you want to be.
You fight by not backing down, and not letting them stop you from making them show what they believe in.
And just because a distribution system like our economic system moved money to a person, does not mean that money is always actually theirs, it only means they were willing to take it, not everyone does that.