Men are weird!

[Lady Freedom]

Gives up a super job offer due to the fact that it is an hour and 15 minutes away. Then he says this cryptic thing. He said " I can't say it now, but please know that I do." What the heck does that mean. Well guys? What is going on in this fellow mans head?


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[Occulus]

1. Nuthin.

Really. It didn't make sense.

[Deja Q]

2. He's thinking about sex, I should imagine...

He probably saw a woman, man, sheep, cattle, toaster, cousin, or whatever it is that floats his proverbial boat and got all tipsy-like... :evilgrin:

Edit: Run-on sentence correction

[ScreamingMeemie]

3. Is that a guy you are dating? It sounds like man code for "I love you".

Although, being a woman, I cannot tell for sure. :hi:

[Lady Freedom]

8. Yes it is the guy I'm dating.

Love??? :shrug:

[ScreamingMeemie]

19. Yes, only he's afraid to say it for fear of rejection. Just my opinion, bu

t something like that happened to me. Good luck!

:hi:

[kanrok]

16. Grumpy the magnificent strikes again

That's EXACTLY what he means. Lovey-Lovey-Love-Love!!

[ScreamingMeemie]

20. Hi there kanrock!

How have you been? Five and a half months till I can get on your Bear loving case again. ;)

:hi:

[Lady Freedom]

24. But we have only gone out for 3 months!

n/t

[kanrok]

29. Remember, L Men are weird!

It's Love...book it.

[Lady Freedom]

33. Why?!?!?!?!??!?!??!?!

I had such a good thing (till now) going!

[kanrok]

Got my 65 inch HD ready to roll!

Bring on the Pack!

[Lady Freedom]

23. Now wait a minute...

No one said anything about that!

[TXlib]

39. DINGDINGDINGDINGDING

We have a winner.

I agree this is what he meant.

[Bhaisahab]

4. weird? we can be downright loony

which is why we need a matriarchal society.

[Steven_S]

5. Oh I know..

That's code for "Get off my back" He does not want to commute that far and I can't blame him. Now do what he asks and back off.

[Lady Freedom]

11. Back off?

But he is the one pressing to meet my family. And has written me far more that I have him.And he has called me twice as much. When it comes down to it who the one that needs to back off. I'm not ready for the "C" word or even the "M" word.

[Steven_S]

21. He must be using the new code...

I'm still using the old code. Sorry I don't know that one. :)

[HEyHEY]

6. We're not wierd were just NOT INSANE

;-)

[Az]

7. You are just figuring that out?!

We are whacked... in the head.

[SmokeyBlues]

9. Has he been talking to Rumsfeld? n/t

[democracyindanger]

10. It means

He stole something from you. And he slept with your best friend.

[Lady Freedom]

14. Trying to scare me?

He can't have sleeped with my best friend. He is not his type.

[democracyindanger]

17. That's what

you think...

[LincolnMcGrath]

12. DUMP THE CREEP

Just Kidding!

[Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin]

13. I guess my first question is where do you live?

Is there affordable housing close to the job he left? If he moved closer to that job would it mean he'd see you less?

I'll bet the last question is something you didn't think of. Personally an hour and fifteen minute commute each way is not one I'd care to make.

[Lady Freedom]

18. But we're not a couple.

Are we? I mean there is nothing serious, at lest I don't think so?

[prolesunited]

31. Hahahahaha!

Who are you trying to fool?!?!

He is in constant contact with you and wants to meet your family. Even if you don't think you're a couple, he certainly does.

I'm guessing "now" is "know."
He obviously wants to say "I love you." That was a trial balloon to see how receptive you are to the idea.

You might want to tell him to slow down or back off a bit before he gets in even deeper if you don't want a relationship.

[Fridays Child]

15. Shall I pop it into the MANalyzer for you?

Oh, I'd be so rich if I actually had one of those.

[NightTrain]

22. Does this have anything to do with my stripping naked...

...covering myself with Vaseline and Wheat Thins, and running down Main Street in Hartford during the afternoon rush hour singing "Look What They've Done To My Song, Ma?"

[Gildor Inglorion]

26. Oooh! Oooh!

That's the most erotic thing I've ever heard! And I love that song:
"Wish I could find a good book (to live in)...."

[SarahB]

25. I have no clue

I only understand men under the age of 9. Men can say all sorts of intense things they never quite explain.
Not that we're much easier.

[Career Prole]

30. Intensity?

When it's fourth and goal at the eight with four ticks left on the clock and you're down by four the situation calls for a certain intensity. Woman intensity however is another creature all together. I'm in need of a babelfish.

[LastKnight]

27. why do women search for deep meaning in everything we say?

if it didnt make sense, drop it, chances are even he didnt know what he wanted to say. if we say 'nothin' when you ask us the what are you thinking question it really is 'nothin' why do you think were hiding something, we can thank about nothin, and we often do, whats the big deal? were not being cryptic or anti-conversational, just honest...

lol

-LK

[Lady Freedom]

32. deeper, smeeper!

I just don't want to end up trying to escape though those dame small windows in the womens bathroom of some restaurant because he starts to talk about the "C" word. And if he did mean "I love you" I better be careful!

[Misinformed01]

35. Not all women do

I learned a long time ago that when you ask a man what he is thinking about and he replies, "nothing," he is not kidding-

[put out]

28. Sorry to be the typing police (on the keyboard)

Did you mean "I can't say it now, but please KNOW that I do". Not to put words in his mouth, but sounds to me like:

"I don't want to be that far from you. I don't want to say "I love you", so I can't say it now. However, ask me more about why I am turning down this job."

Frankly, that's a long long way to drive, so he would probably need to move. And maybe he feels the job is a poor fit?

Hm-m-m. I'm usually off in my assessments. Tell what really goes on as the situation unfolds.

[Lady Freedom]

34. "love" is not the answer I wanted to hear!

Rats! :(

[Ganja Ninja]

36. OK men are weird but ...

at least we don't pluck out our eye brows and draw them back on. How diabolical is that?

[Don_G]

37. He Knows Something You Don't

Ask him to let you know about it, then go from there.

[Lady Freedom]

38. Huh?

Know what????

[Lady Freedom]

40. what does he know?

If you know something please spell it out!