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dawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 10:27 AM
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Ugh! I just unloaded a ton of self-pity on a friend.
Now she thinks I'm a dweeb! :(
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HappyMe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 10:40 AM
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1. That's what friends are for.
Every once in awhile, it's good to just let 'er rip.



She didn't really call you a dweeb, did she?
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dawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 10:45 AM
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2. No, she's like, the sweetest person in the whole world.
Other than my boys, that is.

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HappyMe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 10:56 AM
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4. It's great that you have such a kind, sweet friend.
No need for you to feel dweebish.
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siligut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 10:53 AM
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3. It helps to talk
And if she is a friend, she probably feels good if she can help.
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dawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 11:03 AM
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5. Yes, but ,,,
I kind of hate having her know how much of a mess I am.
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siligut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 12:09 PM
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6. At least you are in touch with your feelings
And I think you are being too judgmental of yourself.
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dawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 12:25 PM
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7. That's what she said.
But, frankly, I think you're both wrong. It's been too long. The clue phone is ringing ... time for dawg to finally pick it up.

Really, I am a lucky man. With all the blessings I have, it is shameful for me to feel the way I do.
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HappyMe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 01:12 PM
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9. Everybody heals/recovers at
their own speed.
If you are feeling that it is time to answer that clue phone, it's a step in the right direction for you.
That being the case, I'm glad to be wrong.

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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 01:02 PM
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8. dweebs are cute. lol.
B-)
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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 07:02 PM
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10. Just give her a nice little insignificant
thank you gift with a card thanking her for listening. Then just let it go. :hi:
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City of Mills Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 07:10 PM
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11. Just play it off
If she asks how you're doing, just lie and say "haha sorry I threw a tantrum the other day, I'm better now - see what happens when you're overtired?"

I find lying can often get you out of a jam.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 07:14 PM
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12. YOU WANT I SHOULD KICK SOME DWEEB DAWG ASS?
LEMME AT YOU
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 08:18 PM
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13. That's what I like about you, Skittles. You have an answer for everything.
Same answer, but hey, if it ain't broke...
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 08:49 PM
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14. so many egregious things nolabear; so little ass-kicking time
yes INDEED :D
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dawg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-22-11 11:28 PM
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15. I have finally arrived.
My ass has needed kicking for a long time . :P
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