because Edwards does not use the death of his son in any way to gain sympathy or support for his cause. But there is a comment in this article about it that I think is telling. The author points out that Edwards reaction to extreme grief and stress in his life was to turn to his faith, to establish the Wade Edwards Foundation and to go into politics. I think that speaks to Edwards strength of character and to what kind of man he is.
>>Senator Edward's greatest loss: a 16-year-old son
By ROB CHRISTENSEN
September 15, 2003
John and Elizabeth Edwards were rich beyond all expectations, counting a wide circle of friends and enjoying a close-knit family.
Then on April 4, 1996, their world unraveled in the few seconds it took for their son's Jeep Cherokee to overturn on an interstate.. Wade Edwards, 16, was killed. It was at once a tragedy for the family and a life-changing moment for John and Elizabeth. They decided, in their late 40s, to have more children. They turned to religion. And John Edwards would launch a new career in politics, a radical turn for a man who often didn't vote.
Edwards' response to Wade's death provides at least part of the explanation for an unlikely career in politics and provides clues to how he responds under duress - something Americans like to know about potential presidents.
At first, he and Elizabeth withdrew from nearly everything that had been in their lives before the death. Everything except their family.
Elizabeth Edwards could have had a high-powered law career like her husband, but she did what many mothers do: She balanced her career with the demands of rearing two children, Wade, born in 1979, and Cate, born in 1982.
She still practiced law - as a bankruptcy lawyer for the firm of Merriman, Nicholls & Crampton - worked in the state Attorney General's Office and was an instructor at the University of North Carolina law school.
She was also a suburban soccer mom, hauling coolers of soft drinks to her children's soccer games.
Despite long hours at his law practice, Edwards coached several of his children's soccer and basketball teams. The family had season tickets to the University of North Carolina's basketball games. Wade worked part time as a runner in his father's office.
Father and son climbed Mount Kilimanjaro in Tanzania in 1995. When they neared the top, Edwards developed altitude sickness and Wade helped his father get dressed and climb to the summit. Edwards, already slim from jogging, lost 20 pounds that week.
In early 1996, Wade was one of 10 national finalists in a patriotic essay contest sponsored by the National Endowment for the Humanities and the Voice of America. The essay described the experience of accompanying his father to the voting booth. The essay earned the Edwardses a trip to the White House, where they met Hillary Clinton.
Several weeks later, Wade, 16, was heading to meet his parents for Easter break at the family beach home on Figure Eight Island near Wilmington. He was accompanied by three friends from Broughton High School traveling in two vehicles . Along I-40 in Duplin County, Wade's 1995 Jeep Cherokee drifted to the left onto the median, according to the accident report. He swung right and overcorrected. The vehicle flipped and landed on its roof.
Nearby motorists helped the passenger out of the Jeep and extinguished a small engine fire. But Wade Edwards' lifeless body was pinned in the vehicle.
Afterward, the Highway Patrol said Wade was traveling about 70 mph in a 65-mph zone. There was no indication of alcohol. He was wearing a seat belt.<<
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