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My story is quite interesting. I was born and raised in the Seattle area and considered myself a Republican. I just regurgitated the garbage my conservative relatives spewed out, and never thought for myself.
When I was 18 I moved to southeastern Idaho and attended a private, religious, and extremely conservative college (BYU-Idaho). At first, I still had a lot of conservative beliefs, and even contemplated joining the college Republicans club (perish the thought!), but never did. In my junior year, I took a Sociological Theory class that was taught by a professor who had his PhD in Marriage and Family Therapy from Purdue. I respected him immensely and he opened my eyes! He stated that he didn't care if homosexuals were allowed to get married and that they should be allowed to adopt. This was upsetting to me at first, I am ashamed to admit, but when he explained his reasons, it all started to fit together. This was the beginning of my reawakening.
My senior year was spent at Idaho State University in Pocatello, Idaho. Now Pocatello is still conservative like the rest of Idaho, but it is the most liberal part of Idaho, by far! I was a sociology major and the entire department of Sociology was liberal, and therefore my true education continued. I also got involved with a progressive club on campus and now I am so far to the left, I am almost off the charts!
So, I always like to tell people that I didn't become liberal until I came to Idaho, saw some real conservatives, and conservative politics, and saw the Republican party for what is truly is. But really, it was that one professor, who exposed me to ideas I never entertained, who opened my eyes, and who changed my life.
1. What made you reach the "tipping point" when you realized you couldn't go along with it anymore?
I have reached several mini "tipping points."
2. Do your friends/family know yet?
A few do. But my family is 95% Republican, and my mom has begged me to keep my mouth shut at family get togethers, which I do, out of respect for her.
3. How has your life become harder/easier (or, what was easy about the change, and what has been the hardest?)
It has become way harder. I am in a minority here in Idaho, and in my religion, where 80+% are Republican. I have been ostracized by many because of my beliefs.
I am always having to defend my political beliefs, which has only strengthened them.
It has become easier in that I feel free, and have enjoyed a life where I am not constantly judging and unhappy, but rather accepting and loving towards others.
4. Chances are you heard lots of stereotypes about Democrats. What has been the biggest surprise for you about Democrats themselves? Do you see Republicans in a different light now?
Republicans try to claim "family values," and religion/spirituality for itself. When, in my opinion, the Republican party is a party of wolves in sheeps clothing. A party with many hypocrites and unhappy people who have to tear down others because they have such miserable lives. Jesus was the most progressive leader the world has ever known!
5. Do you have any desire to bring "on the fence" people over to your way of thinking now? If so, what do you think you would tell them (and what kind of reaction would you expect)?
YES! I am careful about who I talk to about politics. But, whenever I get the chance, I spread the message of liberalism and how it has improved my life immensely. I also try to talk to some not on the fence people. If someone listens to me, I try to bring them over.
I also created a website, exclusively about Mormonism and pacifism, and how the two are connected. I will be sharing my website with anyone who wants to view it.
Thank you for this opportunity to share my story, Jessica
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