She strikes a chord for military families
By Peter Canellos, Globe Columnist | August 16, 2005
WASHINGTON -- In war and politics, military families have more friends and fewer advocates than other Americans. The military families' contributions to the Iraq war are regularly celebrated by President Bush and the Republican Party as advancing the cause of freedom. Meanwhile, the soldiers' deprivations are highlighted by the Democratic Party as signs of the Defense Department's poor management of the war -- the lack of armor, the need for more troops, and so on.
But in each case, closer inspection suggests that the troops and their families are merely props intended to buttress existing arguments -- be they Bush's efforts to justify a war he started, or the Democrats' need to show how poorly conceived the whole exercise has been. The fact that military families often choose to participate, and show a lot of emotion, gives them an added glow of poignancy: Their desire for an advocate, a voice in the process, is palpable. So is their susceptibility to false friendship.
When a soldier is killed, as has happened with slow, muffled regularity for 2 1/2 years, military families seem especially alone, in a dilemma only they can fully appreciate. Most want to believe that their loved one died to keep the United States free, but many wonder if the sacrifice was worth it.
Cindy Sheehan, a 48-year-old mother of four from Vacaville, Calif., lost her son Casey in Iraq about a year ago. Her ceaseless grief has led her to demand a meeting with Bush to discuss ending the war, which she feels has become ''senseless."
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