Saw this in the paper this weekend - photos in the print version but text here:
http://www.usaweekend.com/09_issues/091108/091108jill-biden.htmlA Veterans Day message from the wife of Vice President Joe Biden on how they coped while their son served in Iraq
By Jill Biden
I will never forget my son Beau's deployment ceremony on Oct. 3, 2008, in Dover, Del. As I stood in the audience watching him, a general's wife quietly slipped a prayer into my hand. The prayer has stuck with me every day since:
"Dear God, I pray to give all of our soldiers the courage and strength to do the duty that is required of them. May they always remember our appreciation for the sacrifice they are making for us. We are thankful for the men and women who are willing to risk their lives to protect our freedom. I ask you to go with each one of them and protect them wherever they go. Amen."
The power of such words can be comforting. I can be anywhere during the course of my day -- writing on the chalkboard in my classroom, preparing a meal, walking into a meeting -- and I just stop, close my eyes and say a quick prayer for those serving us. I have been overcome with gratitude in the past year when neighbors and people I don't even know have approached me to say, "I am praying for your son's safe return."
Other sources of comfort helped Beau remain connected to the family. As nana to Beau's 5-year-old daughter, Natalie, and his 3-year-old son, Hunter, I helped make sure he received soccer game photos, notes and artwork from his kids. Joe and I stuffed a Christmas stocking for Beau last December with candy, playing cards and a note saying how much we missed him. I baked Beau his favorite brownies and sent them along with new running gear on his birthday. On election night, as our family gathered in a Chicago hotel room, we connected with Beau online so he could share the excitement. When the moment came and we knew we had won, my son Hunter set up the computer outside so Beau could watch our family walk onstage. The moment remains bittersweet, having Beau connected with us to share the moment, but not being there physically.
more at link above...
Edit to add - I remember photos of Joe and the elder Hunter messing with a laptop - now I know what that was all about :)