I have an 8-year old son. There's a
big gap between my first and second children and a 5 year gap between the 2nd and 3rd. My older son (middle child) was IVF - hubby and I had tried for years to have a baby - but No. 3 came along "the regular old way". Quite a surprise, to say the least, but one that we welcomed.
I've never done things in a logical or traditional manner. Had first baby 6 months after graduating high school at 16, then we did the hippie travelling thing for quite a while, then I went to college, worked, moved to Britain, worked and travelled some more, had two more children, then decided to go to university again in the UK, graduated (again) 2003, now trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.
I know what you mean about missing political discussions. I was fairly apolitical for years after moving to the UK. I never got involved with British politics for the simple reason that I can't vote here (not a citizen). When I thought about it, I knew it would have to be LibDem or Labour for me if I
could vote, but I've always absolutely loathed Tony Blair (I find him smarmy and false) and despite liking some of what the LibDems have to say, it often seems to me that they come up with policies that are different solely for the sake of being different rather than having any conviction that whatever they're proposing at a particular time is actually worthwhile or feasible. And the Conservatives have lost the plot completely.
Also, at the time I moved here, Reagan was president. I was so disillusioned with American politics during his presidency, and for the life of me I couldn't fathom how he could be so beloved by the American people. I just didn't (and still don't) get it. "The Great Communicator" my shiny white ass. My mother used to talk about how sincere Reagan was, and my response was always "the man was an
ACTOR, mother - he made his living pretending to be something he wasn't". And he continued to do that once he entered politics, playacting at being a leader. And people bought the BS. Shocking.
I didn't think it could get any worse and then we had Poppy Bush. I wasn't even successful in getting my absentee ballot sent to me on time for that one. I had no idea about the Bush family, no idea at all, and if someone had told me what was in store several years down the line from that misbegotten bunch, I'm not even sure I'd have believed it at the time. The horror to come would have been too huge to comprehend.
Then Bubba became President and I was happy for 8 years (well, other than the hounding of him by the Repugs the entire time - it beggars belief that a President, one who did many fine things, was impeached over a freakin' blowjob).
I was able to keep going through Shrub's first term because I was so convinced that he would be overwhelmingly defeated in his bid for re-election. Then when I was back in Georgia visiting my dad and stepmom last summer, I discovered that they were
actually working locally for his re-election campaign. I was stunned. These are people who have barely bothered to vote over the years, and who actually were Dems once upon a time (albeit decades ago), and they were actively campaigning for the little turd. It was hard for me to take in, and it worried me.
I started looking into it more deeply and it was like when you pick up a rock and see all the creepy crawlies running around, and then wish you hadn't looked under the rock because you're repulsed by what's under there. I did a lot of reading and realized just how organized the right-wing fundamentalists had become in getting their flock out to vote. How they kept hammering away at their hot-button religious issues (gays, abortion) over all others. For example, healthcare, education, jobs? Forget it. Who cares if your children end up flipping burgers because they can't read and you lose your house because you can't pay your medical bills, as long as you can keep two people of the same sex from becoming legally wed, right?
My dad: retired, not a huge pension, major heart condition requiring loads of meds. Told me he felt "Mr. Bush is doing a good job". Um, how exactly is that, Dad? He couldn't name one thing. Not one. But gays can't get married, so that's OK then.
I know this has been long, and off topic, so I'll start winding it up. When I got back to the UK after my trip home last year, I started paying a lot more attention. I became "politicized" again for the first time in years and started looking for political forums on the net, where I found a whole new world. Eventually I discovered Smirking Chimp and from there made my way to Democratic Underground.
I can't imagine going back to ignorance. I can't, now that I've looked under the rock. There are too many creepy crawlies that need to be got rid of.
Now, to get back on topic for this thread, which as I recall was which are the liberal suburbs of Atlanta, I'm curious about where you live now. You said you've moved off of Ponce - you're lucky, because it's so pretty there. When I was a kid I used to love the drive along Ponce de Leon (my dad worked at the old main Sears store on Ponce so I knew the road well). Do you live anywhere near Little Five Points or is that further in from where you are?
I'm glad I found DU too. It's good to find people who feel as I do, and it's also been extremely helpful in getting me back up to speed with what's going on in my country.
I spend waaay too much time playing with Photoshop.