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I do agree that the book is enjoyable. But, I disagree with much else that you had to say about it. Actually, I think the book is extremely good. I don't believe anyone can write such a book by basing it on market research. I am curious as to what parts of the book you are referring to when you say he is fawning to public tastes.
I don't know what the reviews led you to expect - I try not to read reviews before I read a book. I'd be interested to hear what you were expecting, and how the actual book was disappointing in view of these expectations. The main characters are all 3 dimensional - excepting Lalitha who I believe serves more as a symbol than a character. To me, one of the main functions of literature is to answer the question, "How should we live?" This book addresses that question. The characters and families in this book mostly travel in social circles that are far from the social circles I travel in. Yet, the relationships between these characters resonate with me. I've made those mistakes. I've felt those emotions. The book goes a long way toward explaining how we make some of our mistakes, gives us some idea of how to avoid them.
Walter makes a young man's mistake when he takes Patty back after she goes on the trip with Richard. He's angry. He knows he's not her first choice. Yet he accepts her, and their young marriage is, somewhat, overshadowed by this knowledge. Patty's not completely happy. He knows it. Marrying a woman who is only settling for you is a mistake of immaturity. The book is also rich in structure. For instance, in the first few pages we have the newly married Patty going door to door in the old Ramsey Hill neighborhood, giving plates of cookies to the neighbors, making friends, building community. In the last few pages we have the long married and aging Patty, going door to door in the new Canterbridge Estates neighborhood, giving plates of cookies to the neighbors, making friends, building community. But what a difference the intervening years and events make. How much more value we see in this simple act at the end of the book. Or, for instance, Patty's autobiography, passively titled Mistakes Were Made, where she consistently refers to herself as "the autobiographer" and the audience as "my readers" - instead of to "I" and "you". This impersonal style reflects one of the themes of the book, the little things we neglect that have a huge impact on our lives.
Finally, I have to ask if you were moved at the end. I was. It's hard for me to picture someone reading this book and not being moved at the end.
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