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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 09:10 AM
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Can somebody help me here? There's a book that deals with an imaginary companion that people

in extreme circumstances have "seen." It's a coping mechanism to help you get through hard times.

"Mr. Monk is Underwater" episode made me think of this.



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rurallib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 09:14 AM
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1. The bible? god?
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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 09:20 AM
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2. No, but thanks. I just found it.
Edited on Wed Dec-02-09 09:21 AM by raccoon

The Third Man Factor
By John Geiger
Weinstein, 297 pages, $24.95

In 1953, Austrian mountaineer Herman Buhl became the first person to climb Nanga Parbat in the ­Himalayas—at 26,660 feet, the ninth tallest peak in the world. He climbed by himself and not far from the summit was forced to spend the night out in the open without a sleeping bag or tent. It was an agonizing ­bivouac, but Buhl survived—in part, he later wrote, ­because he sensed that he shared the ordeal with a ­companion. "I had an extraordinary feeling," he wrote, "that I was not alone."

Accounts of experiencing a supportive presence in extreme situations—sometimes called the "third-man phenomenon"—are common in mountaineering ­literature. In 1933, Frank Smythe made it to within a 1,000 feet of the summit of Mount Everest before ­turning around. On the way down, he stopped to eat a mint cake, cutting it in half to share with . . . someone who wasn't there but who had seemed to be his ­partner all day. Again on Nanga Parbat, on a 1970 climb during which his brother died, Reinhold Messner ­recalled being accompanied by a companion who ­offered ­wordless comfort and encouragement.

In "The Third Man Factor," John Geiger, a fellow at the University of Toronto, presents many accounts of such experiences, and not only from climbers. Among those who have felt a ghostly companionship he cites Charles Lindbergh on his solo flight across the ­Atlantic in 1927 and the last man to walk out of the South Tower of the World Trade ­Center before it ­collapsed on 9/11. "Over the years," Mr. Geiger writes, "the ­experience has ­occurred again and again, not only to 9/11 survivors, mountaineers, and ­divers, but also to ­polar explorers, ­prisoners of war, solo sailors, shipwreck ­survivors, aviators, and ­astronauts. All have ­escaped ­traumatic events only to tell strikingly similar stories of having experienced the close presence of a companion and helper." Mr. ­Geiger's book is a highly readable, often gripping, ­collection of survival stories, alongside a survey of theories that attempt to explain the third-man phenomenon.

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052970204884404574361631588827614.html



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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 09:45 AM
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3. Wonder if any Goldman Sachs employees have this experience
Thanks for link. Interesting.
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 09:55 AM
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4. Hmm.


:evilgrin:
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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 10:33 AM
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5. Is that your imaginary friend? nt
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 10:53 AM
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6. He's no friend of mine.
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dgibby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-02-09 11:17 AM
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7. I was going to say "Harvey". nt
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