I did not explain myself correctly. The problem is I told the buyer that they

[Maraya1969]

did not have to pay shipping and now I want them to pay shipping, (because I just assumed they were in the US and it is just a book)

And I sent an invoice of the $50 selling price ONLY. I wrote and apologized for my mistake and said I would send an updated price but I don't want to get in trouble and I don't want one of those NEGATIVE FEEDBACKS!

[sandnsea]

1. Email ebay customer service

and tell them what happened. Double check and make sure you didn't list the book as US only. I try to so I don't have to deal with overseas problems. Maybe you did and didn't realize it. Maybe there won't be that big of a problem with pulling the listing, I know it happens. And you could email the buyers back and tell them you didn't mean to list the book for overseas purchase.

I wouldn't trust that a shipping place will give you the cheapest rate, mine doesn't. And I would also check and see if there's overseas book rate, like there is in the US.

And quit worrying. People make mistakes. It'll be fine.

[robinlynne]

2. For the first time ever, I agree with sandnsea. Also, if you ship bookrate it will be so

cheap you may not lose much at all. media mail is very inexpensive and very slow. you could wrap the book, weigh it, and offer the buyer free by media mail whihc will take x number of weeks to the Netherlands. or X if they want to receive it quickly.

[Oregone]

3. Hm. Interesting. Why don't you start a thread about it?