that for some of us (the "us" being Wiccans and most Pagans), it is truly a sacred day, when we honor our ancestors and departed loved ones. BTW, Samhain in Gaelic is pronounced "Shaw-veen", leading directly to "halloween" after the Christians stole it from us.
(thank you very much, Mr. Pope, I will NOT be honoring you tonight)
I hope everyone has a great halloween, and trust me, Wiccans and Pagans are not easily offended, I'm just asking that you keep in mind that for some of us, it is our High Holy Day.
If you are so inclined, here is a very simple Samhain ritual that won't offend people of other faiths or no faith.
http://www.zodiacbistro.com/rituals/samhain%20ritual.htmThis is a day of remembrance, our New Year and the last harvest festival. With so much going on with one holiday, this simple ritual expresses it all. As always, I leave the decorating up to your own good taste, but this is a meal celebration. So the recipe for your favorite dishes will be the key to your enjoyment. Pick recipes that includes the harvest essentials; pumpkin, apples, and if you are a meat eater include that as well. My own preference would be a hearty soup or stew, with plenty of fresh vegetables like potatoes, corn, onions, carrots, homemade bread and either fish or meat, depending on what I can find fresh at the market. Your own choices and life style should be reflected in the dishes you prepare.
Decorate the table for your ritual. You will be leaving a place at the table for those unseen friends who will join you. So set your table and cook your meal and welcome your friends when they arrive. If you are dining on your own, remember you are inviting those who have passed over so make a placesetting for them as well. Once dinner is ready, pour the drinks and open the ritual with a poem or make one up yourself. Doreen Valiente's poem "Samhain Chant" can be found here. There are lots of other seasonal and Samhain poems out on the Internet that can be used as well. Choose one that fits your style.
Once your ritual is open, invite your Gods and/or Goddess' to join you for your meal. At the empty chair, place some of the food on the plate and offer an opening toast to those unseen spirits who have joined your ritual.Time now for you to enjoy your own meal, and if you have a friend or two, enjoy the company of likeminded people. You should discuss the past year, plans for next year, good times and good company. This is a time to enjoy what the God and Goddess have given us, and we do so by celebrating. Laugh, have a great time, have second helpings of dessert if you so desire.
If you are doing this meal alone, I suggest you take a notebook and write down things that you want to remember in advance. Make a list of this year's events and next year's plans. As you sit and eat, discuss these with your unseen guests. Remember to have a good time on your own. There is nothing wrong with speaking with spirits, and sometimes you may even hear an answer or two, or a bit of laughter. Do not worry; they are there to enjoy the evening. You will have a good time.
Once the meal is done, it is time to drink a toast to those who have parted this world. Remember them by name, remember them by deed. Remember them with laughter, and remember them with a tear. Wiith a final toast, thank the Gods for a good year but save some drink in your cup. At this point take the plate of food, and the cup of drink, as well as a last portion of your own drink, and move outside to offer these to the spirits of those who have joined you, and to honor the Gods. Pour the drink into the earth, and leave the food for the spirit of whatever comes by.
Once back inside at the table, remember to thank the Gods again for the good year that has passed, and ask Their blessings on the year to come. This is a good way to end the ritual, but it should not end the evening. Continue to have a wonderful evening with good conversation with your friends, or if you are on your own, it's time to find those things that interest you and enjoy your evening as well. Good movie, good book, or go out someplace to find good company and good conversation. Again, this is your celebration. Enjoy it.
And here are 13 Samhain songs:
http://www.patheos.com/community/paganportal/2010/10/29/13-songs-for-samhain/Seems strange that we began the 13 Songs series with Beltane and here it is already Samhain. What an important holiday, and an important milestone for us here on Pantheon. We’ve spent seven months together as of Samhain, the entire Goddess half of the year. I hope the God half proves as interesting and rewarding.
I thought I would do something a bit different this time. Instead of 13 random songs to fit the season, I attempted to put together a liturgical set of music. From Joan Jett to set the tone to Wendy Rule to point the way to the next holiday, I hope I have put together something that you can listen to as you bake for Samhain feast or even use for ritual if you are a solitary. If you would like to play all the videos automatically click here.
May the Hallow’s Tide bring you blessing and carry away your sorrow. Here’s to the Gods! Here’s to the ancestors! Here’s to our community!
13. Joan Jett – Season of the Witch
This song gets me in the Samhain mood. It’s dark, repetitive growling vibe tell my soul something different is about to happen.
#12-#1 follow at the above link, with vid clips for each:
Happy Samhain, and blessed be.
ps. even if you are a hard-core Atheist, try to take a sec today to think fondly of loved ones who are not in your life anymore. Trust me, it's good for the heart.
pps, I should clarify that I see this as metaphor and poetry, not theological fact. That does not reduce it's significance to me.