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I think people concentrate too much on the Tree/fruit and not enough on the relationship between God and Adam.
The parent/child analogy is applicable because it is one almost all of us experience in our own lives. Now, all (normal) parents want to protect their children from injury, and that is what most religious people focus on with the Adam & Eve story. There is a lot of truth there, but there is also something else present. Most parents profess a desire that their children have a better life than they themselves had.
There is a reason that this is the first story in the Bible. It is, after all, one of the first stories in all of our lives, and it is one we have to experience if we wish to grow up. In a Biblical/anthropologic sense, living in innocence, while it protects us from sin, also prevents us from growing individually to our full potential.
The truth is, and I learned this partly in my profession as an engineer, that no progress will occur until someone 'breaks the rules.' Probably the most visible example of this in the present day is the whole evolution/creation argument. Charles Darwin broke the rules by postulating a non-Biblical version of how the Earth came to be as it is. This took many people out of their comfort zone, which of course led to recriminations and arguments--'death' in this case being an expulsion from accepted society, or loss of the keys to heaven if you like. However, pretty much all of modern biology and most of the advances in modern medicine spring from this also. Metaphorically, science is a constant feeding at the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.
On a more personal note, we all have to at one time or another rebel against our parents. If we do not, we risk never having a life of our own. It does not have to be a big violent rebellion, it might be as small as where do you go for Thanksgiving dinner. I would argue that the more repressive the core/home family, the greater the need for a stressful and potentially violent rebellion, while a more open accepting family will not need so great of a rebellion. The stereotype of the minister's children being over sexed and prone to mischief is based on some real psychology, if not on real satistical evidence. We accept that paradigm because it makes sense to us, even though it may not be reflected in reality.
Our parents are always our parents, and our children are always our children, but until children grow up and break away from their first family, they cannot experience the full growth of their potential and form real families of their own. I would argue that many religious moralists, who base their entire moral foundation on just the Bible, have not eaten of the tree. Only until one makes a difficult moral decision wherein they are faced, not with a choice between an obvious good versus an obvious evil, but between the lesser of two evils, or the greater of two goods, on their own part do they grow into a full person. As long as people blindly follow others' moral judgements they remain, effectively, children.
One of the great misunderstandings that occur between religious and non-religious people is the definition of good and evil. Believers tend to think in black and white, while non-believer tend to believe that some evils are greater than others and sometimes one is forced to choose there, and not in the comfort zone. Re-watch Sophie's Choice. Where was the 'good' in the choice she was forced to make?
Until we each take a bite of that fruit, we will never be better, and will remain less, than our parents. If there is a God, and if that God truly loves us, would not that God want us to reach our full potential? In order to do so, we must move beyond the restrictions that bind us. We must learn to make our own choices, and will never learn to do so until we jump in and take a bite of that fruit.
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