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Modern School Donating Member (558 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-11-11 06:38 PM
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Half of All Students Sexually Harassed At School
A new study http://www.aauw.org/learn/research/crossingtheline.cfm by the American Association of University Women (AAUW) found that 48% of middle and high school students experienced sexual harassment last year, according to Good Education. The new study revealed that 56% of girls and 40% of boys reported being sexually harassed. While most of the harassment was verbal, many students also said they had been subjected to physical and electronic harassment.

Only 9% reported the harassment to a teacher, guidance counselor or administrator, and only 27% told their family. While these numbers are sad, they are not surprising, considering that often times the harassers are the adults on campus.

“Hostile Hallways,” a similar AAUW study done in 1992, found that 20% of girls and 10% of boys reported being sexually harassed by school faculty or staff. An earlier survey of North Carolina high school graduates, however, found that 82% of girls and nearly 20% of boys had been sexually harassed by school employees (See “Scapegoat Generation,” by Mike Males, Common Courage Press, 1996).

During my first year teaching, two of my female students accused a male colleague of sexually harassing them. One said he came up behind her in the hallway, squeezed her hips, and said, “My, you’re getting chunky.” The other said he complimented her on her bra and then, when she told him to F-off, told her that was the best offer he’d gotten all week. When I mentioned it to the school social worker, she told me he had been repeatedly accused of similar offenses, but always got away with it. When I reported it to the administration, the principal called me into his office and asked what I had against the man.

In the end, I have no idea whether he was reprimanded in any way. He was promoted within a few years and became dean of a middle school and then an assistant principal.

While it is particularly disturbing to know that those who are responsible for the safety of our children are sometimes the ones who are threatening them, what is much more common is their unwillingness to intervene to stop harassment by others. School employees sometimes ignore put downs or the objectification of students, or refuse to enforce rules prohibiting such behavior. At one school where I worked, the administration responded to a lunchtime melee in which several students attacked a lesbian couple with cans and food by suspending only 2 of the attackers and the 2 victims, and offered a voluntary debriefing for interested students, facilitated not by counselors or social workers, but by other students.

Those who dismiss bullying as a rare or insignificant event will hopefully be enlightened by this recent data on sexual harassment. When we consider that nearly half of all students experience sexual harassment, the conclusion ought to be that bullying is the norm, not the exception. While many of the abusers felt that what they were doing was “no big thing,” or “just a joke,” nearly 30% of the victims said they had trouble sleeping, frequently felt sick or did not want to go to school.

Modern School
http://modeducation.blogspot.com/2011/11/half-of-all-students-sexually-harassed.html
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onpatrol98 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-11-11 06:42 PM
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1. When, I was growing up
Some coaches got several teen girls pregnant. Nothing ever came of it. It was no secret. Everyone seemed to know it. And they kept right on working.
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yurbud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-13-11 04:44 PM
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6. a veteran teacher told me there are always two teachers at every school having sex with students:
A gym teacher and another teacher.

If a coach isn't technically a gym teacher, he should be one.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-11-11 06:50 PM
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2. In the book "Party of One" it goes into people who are solitary, particularly girls who
remain family oriented rather than boycrazy in highschool, and how groups of boys will attack them for that. All in all I'm glad high school is over.
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RKP5637 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-11-11 06:52 PM
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3. Yep, not surprised at all by this study! n/t
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Viva_Daddy Donating Member (142 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-11-11 11:31 PM
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4. The Principal in the above story probably thought that this was
"good experience" for these girls before they got out into "the real world" (which would probably be worse).
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mzteris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-12-11 12:21 PM
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5. had an "affair" with the choral teacher
- started when I was sophomore of fourteen. Of course I know now it was no "affair" but merely sexual exploitation by this guy. I'm pretty sure there were others in the school.

My jr & sr years - I was "hit on" by at least four other teachers - interestingly enough all science teachers . . . hmmmmm. One would have probably forced me if a classmate hadn't come by.

I know a highschool band director back in the 60's who got one his students pregnant. Small southern town so he had to marry her or else...

. . . another band director (university) who had numerous affairs. Cheated on his wife, divorced and married the student he was having the affair with. Divorced her to marry another student he was having an affair with.

Let's not even talk about "deacons" in my church!

I was a victim for a long time. I can't remember when it started. My memories don't extend as far back as I found out in my 20's that it probably began. And the memories go back to age 4. People can spot victims.


I always make it VERY clear to adults around my children that I AM WATCHING! That my children TALK TO ME. I never left them for any extended period unsupervised with other adults (besides school) when they were young. No "drop off" and "come back later" I wanted any potential perverts to know, my child was probably not a good target.

When my daughter in highschool & needed some extra tutoring - I made sure to show up early, drop in unexpectedly just to make sure they knew I was watching.

When I dated my last husband my daughter was about 10 - and beautiful. I told him - "if you're one of those creeps who are dating me to get to my kid, you probably should look elsewhere. Because if I catch you - and I WILL catch you! - I will hurt you in very creative, slow and painful ways and when I'm done you would NEVER be able to molest another child." Surprisingly he stuck around. (for a while anyway. I guess 15 years is a while. . . about 14 years too long, but that's another story!)


Sexual abuse is RAMPANT. Be ever vigilant. If you even SUSPECT IT, CONFRONT IT.

It is unconscionable that that man SAW that child being raped and walked out of the room and let it continue. I'd have probably killed the fkr.

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