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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:55 PM
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I would like to ask my GLBT friends a favor.
I, along with all of you, am very upset at some of the comments that have been posted here lately regarding Rick Warren. Your presence here, each and every one of you, is necessary and treasured.

Please don't break DU rules that could lead to your earning a granite cookie. In other words, don't link to offending threads in here. I think all of us are on the lookout for offensiveness anyway, and linking can only get the link-er in trouble.

I know some of the mods in this forum from when I was a mod, and they're good people. They're not homophobic. I would wager that they are equally disturbed about the selection of Rick Warren as I am.

This isn't a 'get over it' post, either for those who don't know me. I just don't want to lose any of you over this. I think we can all agree that we are all going to be needed going forward to push through equality for our friends.

Peace.
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:57 PM
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1. Two tools to use
One is the Alert button. The other is the private email. When someone says something on a thread that really upsets you, alert on them. Then PM a friend and vent. That way, your friend knows about it and can alert too and you can feel better knowing you are talking with someone sympathetic to your cause.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:59 PM
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3. Exactly.
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Vanje Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 12:58 PM
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2. Henceforth, I will only link to happy smiling posts
Edited on Mon Dec-22-08 01:01 PM by sheeptramp
Check it out! Theres funny kitten pictures in the lounge!

(Sorry. I'm not arguing. I'm just venting a little.)
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:00 PM
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6. I'm not asking you to silence yourself.
Just not to break DU rules that could end up with you getting TS'd. That's all.

PM people to vent, like suggested above.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:00 PM
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4. There's already at least one suspension
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:01 PM
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9. I missed it. Who?
and


:cry:
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:04 PM
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15. madmadmad
Don't know much about the DUer other than the past week. He/she was pretty riled up.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:04 PM
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16. I don't remmeber them breaking rules -- i'll go check it out
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:06 PM
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18. Here
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ronnykmarshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:48 PM
Response to Reply #18
37. Thank god I'm only saying ....
"Piss off" to the fuckers.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:01 PM
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10. I haven't heard about that
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GodlessBiker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:00 PM
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5. You can link to some threads but not others?
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:01 PM
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8. Check out the front page of this forum.
All the locked threads were callouts. That's what I want to avoid. I don't want anyone getting TS'd. Everyone in this forum is too valuable.
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GodlessBiker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:02 PM
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12. Oh. So no linking to locked threads. But linking before they are locked is okay?
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:03 PM
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14. No, you can't do it then, either
You can only do it if the OP was TSed.

I know, it pisses me off, too.
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GodlessBiker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:12 PM
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24. But you link to other threads and it seems okay.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:24 PM
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27. My threads get locked
I usually don't do it, but my level of pissedoffness at some of the filth being posted on here has been overriding other things.
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Wickerman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:05 PM
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17. Here is a guide
http://www.democraticunderground.com/forums/rules_detailed.html

Apply the term subforum in place of groups and you should be fine:

Do not use the DU Groups to "rally the troops" to go participate in discussion threads elsewhere on our website, or to likewise encourage members to vote in polls or recommend threads or alert on posts.


-----

Please hit alert if a thread is out of compliance and we'll look it over. We can't read every thread and might miss some.

thanks,

Wickerman
DU Mod
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:00 PM
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7. I guess this means we can't link to any of your posts
Damn.

:cry:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:01 PM
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11. I wouldn't. I'm usually full of shit.
:woohoo:
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:02 PM
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13. Our Ped Egg is missing -- is Brenda in NJ by any chance?!
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:07 PM
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19. I'm starting to think that those things have legs of their own.
I mean, seriously. They just up and disappear?

It's a brilliant marketing strategy.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:08 PM
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21. They probably have homing devices in them
Ours probably tried to make it back to the Mothership and is now hidden under a foot of snow.
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:07 PM
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20. i am already on notice but linking to threads isn't my problem!
:P :hi:

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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:08 PM
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22. It's all those piercings, I'll bet.
:hide:

:hi:
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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:11 PM
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23. most of those are gone now actually.
getting nine posts in a day deleted will get you a warning I have learned! I am not complaining, I know the rules though at the time I think i am justified in telling these people "FUCK YOU"! :rofl:
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Vanje Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:20 PM
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25. Today is the first time I've had a locked thread
I think I might have had a post deleted a coupla years ago in the lounge , in which I described swallowing a dental crown, and exactly what I had to do to get that crown back again.
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GodlessBiker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:23 PM
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26. So...ummm...what did ya have to do to get rid of the crown?
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Vanje Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:39 PM
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33. No no. I was trying to recover the crown. And I did!
Saved about 1200 bucks!

It was messy. Not a thing you'd ever want to do in public.

Heres a tip:
If you ever swallow a dental crown, immediately eat a big bowl of corn.
Next time you see that corn, you can start ...searching hard.
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GodlessBiker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:15 PM
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48. LOL...I figured it was a gastro-intestinal solution.
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Vanje Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:16 PM
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49. Yes. Deeply so. nt
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Howler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:25 PM
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28. Ummmmm
HOWEVER this is the SECOND incident with Obama. Remember Donnie McClurken?????
I'm beginning too see a very real pattern and it ain't pretty!!!!
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:26 PM
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29. Gee, no I don't.
:eyes:
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Howler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:35 PM
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30. What????
See a pattern?
Or remember mcClurkin?
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:45 PM
Response to Reply #30
36. Who?
:shrug:
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Howler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 03:28 PM
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59. McClurkin
Edited on Mon Dec-22-08 03:39 PM by Howler
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:51 PM
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38. Wait -- that's Obama's pastor, right?
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Howler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 03:29 PM
Response to Reply #38
60. Evidently
Edited on Mon Dec-22-08 03:39 PM by Howler
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Howler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 03:34 PM
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61. MORE
Edited on Mon Dec-22-08 03:38 PM by Howler
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:43 PM
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34. Who's McClurkin, Midlo?
Edited on Mon Dec-22-08 01:43 PM by LostinVA
Is thet the Pen Island manager?

:shrug:
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:57 PM
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39. Is he the snickers ad guy? Boy, I am so confused.
:shrug:
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:03 PM
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42. No, I think he's Obama's pastor -- you know, at that church Oprah went to
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:03 PM
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43. Is he the cured gay guy?
:shrug:


:rofl:

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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:11 PM
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44. No, no
He was Tim Hardaway's publicist I think.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:11 PM
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45. Oh, NOW I remember. That was quite a dust up,
:rofl:
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Vanje Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:14 PM
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47. You mean?
"The gays"(TM) went nuclear?
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 03:19 PM
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57. Yes. It was quite the fracas.
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Howler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 03:25 PM
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58. This is McClurkin and Obama pulled this act during the primaries
Edited on Mon Dec-22-08 03:39 PM by Howler
http://bloggernista.com/2007/10/23/on-the-obama-donnie-mcclurkin-controversy/


McClurkin is one of three gospel acts that will be with Obama on the three stop tour. Obama is in a tough battle with Hillary Clinton for the South Carolina primary in which Black voters make up a strong percentage. The tour was organized with to strengthen Obama’s position in South Carolina among Black voters. The story has now jumped from the gayosphere into the traditional media.

About homosexuality, McClurkin has said, “I don’t believe that it is the intention of God.” and that we can simply pray away the gay.

Other bloggers have pointed out that the other two acts on the tour also have problems with LGBT people:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dUp16hFzY8

http://politicalticker.blogs.cnn.com/2007/10/29/obama-supporter-god-delivered-me-from-homosexuality/
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:36 PM
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31. ...
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:37 PM
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32. Only a freeper would post a video about World Peace.
:P

:hug:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:43 PM
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35. Curses, they're on to me!
Edited on Mon Dec-22-08 01:43 PM by DarkTirade
Where are my freeper smoke pellets? I need to make a flashy macho bravado-esque escape! :P

*edit* Damn, I accidentally spelled everything right.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 01:59 PM
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40. I STRONGLY SECOND MIDLO!
and yes, i know using all caps is rude.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:03 PM
Response to Reply #40
41. WHAT DID YOU SAY?????
:rofl:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:14 PM
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46. serves you right for laughing at me
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:16 PM
Response to Reply #46
50. LOL.
:thumbsup:
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 03:14 PM
Response to Reply #40
56. DO WHAT? I CAN'T HEAR YOU.
I'VE BEEN DOING TARGET PRACTICE WITH MY TAMPON GUN AND MY HEARING'S A LITTLE OFF.

:popcorn:
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:22 PM
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51. sigh -- i can't tell homophobes to 'fuck-off'?
one of lifes little pleasures gone in a puff of smoke.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:31 PM
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52. Like RK I switched to piss off
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:40 PM
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55. that'll work. -- unless i get pevy and confused.
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meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:34 PM
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53. Can you link to your own offending threads?
I posted one and it got locked - it offended blacks, hispanics, jews, asians and gays.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-22-08 02:37 PM
Response to Reply #53
54. One of the things I love about you meegbear.
You're an equal opportunity offender.

:rofl:

Just kidding.
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